The mastery of transitions is an important step to becoming an intermediate PUA. Successful transitions solves the problem of:
- Avoid awkward pauses
- Smooths out one phase to another
There are a couple of major transition points that a seducer must master. This pans across many different seduction schools of thought and I may not have covered all the transition points. Nonetheless, here goes:
- First transition is from the opening to having a normal conversation. Many newbies make the mistake of NOT transitiong away from the opener. There’s only so much you can say about dental floss. Move on, start talking about things that actually matter to you.
- In comfort, a good seducer shifts from flirting and teasing to normal serious conversation. This constant push and pull spikes her emotions and keeps her in a playful state. It is also extremely fun for you. Transitioning to sarcastic to teasing to serious is a sublte yet important skill.
- Getting her number – this should be an after thought, matter of fact transition, the number is a result of the great interaction you’ve had.
- Qualification – sometimes, you need to let the girl know why you are interested in her, and this can in in the form of “So, can you cook?”
- At some point the PUA needs to stop joking around and show her that you’re a real person. This is the phase of comfort conversation and requires a smooth transition.
- Seduction escalation is a very transition phase – going from initial conversation to sexual escalation, whether verbal or non-verbal. Depending on the type of game you’re running, this transition can happen right away on the open, or later on in a seduction location
Mastering smooth transitions is a key element of great game, and bedding 9s and 10s. You want to be so in command of this that everything appears naturally.
n/a – concept