Charisma Arts is a pickup company that focuses heavily on conversational game, so they have created a slew of terminology related to the different phases of conversation, as well as specific conversational techniques to employ during the seduction process.
Wayne Elise, aka “Juggler” is an instructor of pickup and conversational skills. Wayne was one of the first pickup “gurus” to hold in-field seminars, when he created a company called “Seduction Arts” (later renamed “Charisma Arts”) back in 2001. Wayne’s style of pickup differs from other early gurus such as Mystery, in that it doesn’t… Read More
AKA “man charm” or “charismatic vibe” Quick Definition: The non-sexual seduction of a person or group of people. Full Definition: The word charisma means “favored by the Gods” in Greek. It describes a person who possesses magnetism and charm, and others recognize those qualities. Achilles was charismatic. Barrack Obama is charismatic. When women see Barrack… Read More
Quick Definition: A question that cannot be answered with a short or one word answer. Full Definition: An open ended question is a question that is designed to elicit a full response from the respondent, rather than a brief one. It is the opposite of a closed ended question, which can be answered with a… Read More
Quick Definition: An opener where the PUA comments on something that a woman is about to focus on. Full Definition: A flopsy is a type of focused opener. But rather than starting a conversation based on what a woman is focused on, the pick up artist comments on something that he anticipates that the woman… Read More
Quick Definition: Matching or getting in touch with a person’s emotional state in order to build rapport and the lead the interaction. Full Definition: Pacing is the technique of mirroring someone’s emotional or mental state in order to establish rapport with them. When a PUA paces an interaction, he puts himself in the other person’s… Read More
Quick Definition: Using the first person perspective when telling a story or having a conversation. Full Definition: The “I” perspective is a commonly used conversational technique, which has been greatly developed and clarified by the instructors of Charisma Arts. The basic idea behind the I perspective is to use the word “I” in conversations and… Read More
Quick Definition: The technique of pausing for two full seconds after someone has made a statement, to ensure that she has said everything she wanted to say. Full Definition: The 2 Second Rule is a conversational technique developed by Dan of Charisma Coaching. One of the qualities that women value most in men is the… Read More
Quick Definition: A PUA company that teaches natural game founded by Wayne Elise (aka Juggler). Full Definition: Charisma Arts is one of the oldest pickup companies on the market, first started under the name “Seduction Arts” by Wayne “Juggler” Elise in 2001. The company was later renamed to “Charisma Sciences Institute,” and finally “Charisma Arts”… Read More
Quick Definition: A conversational technique for genuinely listening to a person, rewarding them when they make a statement, and relating to the statement with a statement of one’s own. Full Definition: Rewarding and relating is a conversational technique that helps to prevent conversations from turning into a one-sided Q&A session. Rather than following questions with… Read More