date: Sat, 30 June 2003 09:13 GMT
website: www.fastseduction.com old forums
Context: old way of thinking about “boyfriends”… explained by Flame. Keep in mind, when in-field, a lot of guys found that most women are in unhappy relationships. This is not always the case, and thus the expansion of “boyfriend” routines. You may also choose to respect any existing relationship. The choice is yours. In reality, a lot of people are in mediocre or fulfilling relationships.
Don’t ever, never, ever ask if she has a boyfriend! Maybe she does, maybe not – so what, who cares?
Maybe she does, but wants to have a little fun – your prompting about a possible borefriend will put her off the mood, she’ll move on to another guy and get what she came looking for anyway. Or maybe she does, but is also pretty curious about you and wouldn’t want the existence of a boyfriend scare you away. She might even be considering dumping him in favour of you. Once you’ve extracted that information from her however, she might just write you off in her mind.
If however she blurts it out without prompting, it still doesn’t mean anything. Maybe she really thought she wanted to scare you away, but she really didn’t know what she was doing Take it humorously, be light-hearted and give her another chance
HB: Sorry, but I have a boyfriend.
You: Laughing Hey, I just met you and you are already telling me about your problems?
If I ask her to meet me somewhere and she says But I have boyfriend, I answer with If he makes you happy, then you could bring him along. Then I ask, Does he make you happy?. I decide if I should follow up based on the response. Most have had some complaints about him which gives me something that I can work with later and a topic of discussion.
Maniac High: (One reason she might be saying she has a BF is that) she really does have a BF, likes you, but doesn’t want to feel guilty about cheating on her BF. This is classical chick logic at work here and is good, because it means you are on your way to a fuck, even in spite of the BF Basically this happens because she thinks that if she tells you about the BF now, she can relax and let you you fuck her anyways, since its not her fault now that she fucked you, because, she did tell you about the boyfriend, and you ignored it, ie. she had no choice in the matter.
Use this one if the boyfriend comes up for the first time in the conversation. If she keeps insisting on it, move on to any other boyfriend smashing-bashing technique described in this guide. Mystery:
HER: I have a boyfriend.
ME: That’s nice so anyway .
REASONING – ignore the topic and so will she.
Aaron R. Kulkis:
Her: I have a boyfriend
You: Thats good – I’m not really looking for a girlfriend either
Comments by Alphahot1: Try to say it as congruently as possible and with no sarcasm. Now you have put her a little more at ease and consequently, she will be more open to you. NOW, proceed to SS the fuck out of her with everything you can hit her with. After about 15 or 20 minutes, you won’t have to worry about any boyfriend. Because she will now want YOU to be her boyfriend! Plain and simple.