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Often, action speaks louder than words. Simply lead by example. If you approach and hook a set, newbies will believe you. A woman often sends small signals to let you know she’s ready to be kissed or extracted (IOIs), but it is up to the man. Recognize when you are stuck in “conversation land” and pause or slow your speech down. Phase shift. It is important to know, and, with practice, veterans of game and players know when it is time to SUAL.
Shut up and Lead!