Show of Interest (SOI)

Quick Definition: A sincere compliment to a girl, following by a question to elicit her core values.

Full Definition:

A show of interest can be a genuine compliment, followed by a natural question that explores some of the girl’s personality. This is a core component of Charisma Arts.

For example, the PUA can say, “you have a very cute, sweet girl vibe. So tell me. What does a good girl like you do for fun? What makes you happy?”

Calibration is needed in case she is only innocent in appearance: “Or is there a bad girl hiding under the pretty package?”


If you want to go natural, give the girl genuine SOIs and flow from there.

Related Terms: IOI, Direct Game, Natural, GM Style

Source: Rio

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