• Show of Interest (SOI)

    by AlphaWolf & Co.

    Quick Definition: A sincere compliment to a girl, following by a question to elicit her core values.

    Full Definition:

    A show of interest can be a genuine compliment, followed by a natural question that explores some of the girl’s personality. This is a core component of Charisma Arts.

    For example, the PUA can say, “you have a very cute, sweet girl vibe. So tell me. What does a good girl like you do for fun? What makes you happy?”

    Calibration is needed in case she is only innocent in appearance: “Or is there a bad girl hiding under the pretty package?”


    If you want to go natural, give the girl genuine SOIs and flow from there.

    Related Terms: IOI, Direct Game, Natural, GM Style

    Source: Rio

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    Jessie November 9, 2009 - 8:41 am

    What about when a guy tells you he just wants to be friends, does he mostly mean that, or could he playing hard to get?

    thanks :)

    casual November 9, 2009 - 11:26 pm

    Unless you’re horribly misshapen, most guys will never want to be “just friends” :p

    Jessie November 10, 2009 - 7:33 am

    Yeah. i broke his heart and now my karma. But, hey…plenty of fish…..thx

    alphawolf November 10, 2009 - 8:30 am

    Jessie you’ll note that most pickup advice doesn’t deal with relationship stuff very well because at the end of the day we’re all human. And yes, what goes around comes around.


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