• Shortcut To Seduction: Sexual Avatars

    by AlphaWolf & Co.

    Have you ever met a girl that you were instantly attracted to, before you even spoke to her? There was just something about her that caught your eye, and made your heart skip a beat. She was just your type.

    Every guy has a type (or types) of girl that they are attracted to. And I don’t just mean blond, brunette, redhead, etc. but a specific kind of girl. For me it’s Geek Girls:

    Cute Geek Girl

    Cute Geek Girl

    There’s something about them that just instantly turns me on. Maybe for you it’s a different kind of girl. Maybe you’re more into Hipster Girls, or Athletic Girls, or you’re more the Girl Next Door type. Or the ever popular Cheerleader:

    Cute Cheerleaders

    Whatever your particular fetish is, there are certain types of girls that are just irresistible to us. Maybe it has something to do with our upbringing, or maybe it’s what our culture taught us was “hot” while we were growing up. Whatever the reason, certain types of girls can get us interested in them, before we’ve even gotten to know them.

    That doesn’t mean we’re not attracted to girls who aren’t our type. I’ve personally dated many girls that weren’t geeky. But if I see a geeky looking girl on the street, she’s definitely going to get my attention.

    Attraction for women works the same way. Every girl has a particular type of guy that they are going to be instantly attracted to. This type will differ from girl to girl, but there are certain types of guys in particular that have been popularized in our culture for being sexual ideals, that many girls are attracted to.

    Here at Seducing With Style, we call these Sexual Avatars. Think of Sexual Avatars as archetypes of attractive and sexually desirable guys. Girls that are attracted to a particular avatar will instantly be interested in you, if you come across as the kind of guy that fits into that stereotype.

    The benefits of Sexual Avatars should be obvious. By portraying yourself as a particular avatar, you can dramatically increase your attractiveness to women that are into that avatar. It’s a shortcut to seduction.

    There are many different Sexual Avatars you can choose from, which is why we have created a comprehensive list of sexual avatars which you can model and learn from.

    There are some things to keep in mind before modeling a Sexual Avatar. First of all, certain types of guys are nearly universally seen as sexy by girls, at least those that have been brought up in the Western/Western-influenced culture. Every girl, at one point or another, has been attracted to a Rock Star or a Bad Boy Biker type like James Dean:

    James Dean Biker

    Other Sexual Avatars are more niche. Dressing up like a Goth, for example, will turn off a lot of girls, but will also dramatically increase your attractiveness to certain types of girls, like goth girls and emo girls. You can use this to your advantage. If you yourself are into goth girls, then it makes sense to dress like one to make yourself more attractive to them.

    Ultimately, though, the Sexual Avatar you take on should in some way reflect something about your personality and character. Otherwise, you will just come across as fake and incongruent. Don’t let that scare you away from experimenting when you’re just starting out, though, but keep in mind that ultimately your style should be a true expression of you.

    So check out our list of sexual avatars to start figuring out what kind of look is suited for you, and if you’re interested in learning more about Sexual Avatars and how to instantly make yourself more attractive to women, be sure to check out our ebook, Seduce With Style.

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    Socialkenny June 3, 2012 - 5:26 am

    This makes a lot of sense.

    Over the years,I’d hear yall talk about “Sexual Avatars”,but I never grasped it until now.

    What would you recommend for guys that are into the professional-women/office type[not that I’m into them]?

    AlphaWolf June 5, 2012 - 1:25 am

    See Jeremy Piven in Entourage.

    Women respond to social status and power so emulate people who have power in the office.

    Unfortunately (or fortunately depending on who you are) the corporate ladder game can be a long one. Or you can always start your own business and hire as you like.

    josh July 19, 2013 - 8:52 pm

    What avatar would Orlando Bloom be? He obviously would be a film star but also I think he has a sort of romantic air in the way he dresses. What would this be?

    AlphaWolf August 29, 2013 - 2:51 pm

    Good question, sorry for the late reply. Bloom is a dandy. Sort of feminine but in a masculine way. His style reflects this persona.


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