Quick Definition: When the girl hits the tipping point of being open to the idea of having sex with the artist.
Most PUAs are familiar with the next step after opening: the social hook point. This is where the girl gives you her attention. There is another hook point, the sexual hook point. Julien explains, “when the girl is into you, anime eyes, her voice pitch goes up…
She’s now emotionally invested, “oh really?” For example, Julien imitates a math nerd who is boring him, and then suddenly he says, “oh yeah my sister is Megan Fox”
“wait what, your sister is Megan fox?” is Julien’s response to the math nerd. Suddenly, there’s value there. You’ve reached an emotional investment hook point.
The two hookpoints can happen simultaneously, or after a longer time. You know when this happens when the girl is re-asking your name in a different tonality. “Wait, haha. What is your name?”
Most guys who are trying to get good have a problem of getting from the social hook point to the sexual hook point consistently.
1) Challenge her to get to a sexual hook point
- PUA: “are you from san diego? Hm. Interesting”
- Her: “what!?”
- PUA: “we would not get along”
- PUA: “I can’t talk to you right now. You’re too tall/beautiful/foreign/blonde/smart/old/young
- “Are your parents divorced? Intesresting. You can go now”
2) Teaching her something interesting
- Talk about anything, passionately
- Maker her laugh. Triggers a emotional response
- Playful temperament, not mean
- Fully commit to it
Usage: Did you ever reach a sexual hook point with her?