Time to wake-up – this is real stuff I’m about to reveal that most guys don’t know.
So here’s a picture of a funny dog for you to sober up
When girls talk among themselves, or very rarely, with a trust straight guy, they’ll reveal these secrets.
A lot of guys will cling to old beliefs and deny that these are real, or that “only sluts think this way”.
This holds them back from their evolution, and from seeing the truth – that all human beings are sexual beings and we enjoy expressing our sexuality in a healthy way.
Sex Secret #1: Most girls don’t know what they want
(or if they do, they secretly want a man to come along that has the strength to tell her otherwise)
That’s why when a man dominates, or knows his direction in life and purpose, he’s super attractive to women. You could argue that most people don’t know what they want out of life, and being able to stand up for a cause or a direction of your choice is considered an emotional strength, and one that is very attractive.
Women also want a man to dominate in the bedroom. “Who you are in bed, is who you are in the world” – Samantha from Sex And The City
Sex Secret #2: Facials, light choking and domination is exhilarating
Men are afraid that if they broached the topic, that women will find it insulting. This is not true. A lot of girls find facials sexy, they want the man man to control their bodies and dominate them. Not full force, but adapt to the girl’s threshold. A man is supposed to be more of a leader and dominant in bed. This increases the feminine – masculine polarity and makes sexual interactions stronger.
Sex Secret #3: Girls talk about penises when guys are not around
Yes, size matters to some girls. Most of the time, penis talks is just fun girl-talk. Unless the guy is really small, its not a big issue. If you had the privilege of listening in on these conversations, usually its about an abnormally large or smaller dick that they can laugh at and emotionally pump up their state. Girls are great at doing that. For the most part, if she likes you, your size isn’t the issue.
Sex Secret #4: Girls link your smallest little behavior patterns to your ability in bed and in life
In the same conversation as the penis talk, everything from how type of toothpaste you use to how you tie your shoes is deliberated on by girl-world. Sometimes these connections are strangely accurate – a guy who can’t take the time to tie his shoes properly probably can’t keep to the details at work too. Sometimes these connection make no sense, and girls just do it for fun – “Oh, he’s got black satin sheets. He must be dating 10 strippers! Oh no, what am I going to do? Should I start taking pole dancing classes?”
Sex Secret #5:Most socially conditioned “good girls” have slept with a good collection of guys
Sorry to burst your bubble. But wait, maybe this is not such a bad thing, is it? You want a grounded, good-girl to have some sexual experience, don’t you? Being aware of your competition and what she’s giving up for you (and vice versa) is the first step to a transparent, healthy relationship. On average, a good girl in her mid 20s have probably been with 10 guys, Give or take +3 for each year she’s over 30.
Sex Secret #6: Hot girls have ex-boyfriends or guy orbiters who are jealous and insecure
At least 1 of her guy friends wants to fuck her, sometimes shes knows this, and sometimes she pretends like its not the case. Its the only way for her to maintain these types of relationships. Don’t stress over it too much – just recognize it as a reality.
Sex Secret #7: Some girls don’t like anal or threesomes, but will do it to please you
That’s right. Girls are lovely creatures. When she likes you, she will do her best to adapt and please you.
Sex Secret #8: Girls checkout other girls
Every girl checks out her competition, and can appreciate the details of her beauty – the shoes, the makeup, the accessories. All of these are subtle details in the battlefield of love. Most women, when in an intimate environment will make-out with another girl and enjoy her company. You just have to frame the situation for her to enjoy.
Sex Secret #9: Her sexual fantasies are dirty – probably dirtier than yours, and it is better thought-out with little detail
She wont’ admit this off the bat -only when you’re in a serious relationship. Even then, some guys don’t have the trust or alpha level status that digs up these little secrets. You want to become the guy who doesn’t talk, who is confidential about these things and that she can trust to disclose these details to. She needs to trust that you won’t judge her.
Sex Secret #10: It is hard for a hot girl to find an equally alpha guy to sleep with so most of the time she has to settle
This is a unbelievable one at first, but its true. Most guys just can’t handle themselves around super hotties – they act like they’ve seen an alien. In the end, she’s just another human being, a girl trying to fit in and be loved in the world. Hot girls can’t just sleep around with guys because guys get attached – instead, she has to find a cool hot guy who has lots of options – this is the only way for her to enjoy sex, without being judged, and without being overly clingy.
Its ok to fall for someone after a while of sleeping together, but what shes’ trying to avoid is guys thinking they’re in love with her because they have never been with a girl that hot before.
There you have it. Read the secret society post by Tyler Durden as well. If you’re pissed off right now, re-evaluate what it is that makes you angry, and try to see the whole picture. If you’re thinking, “this is cool”, that means you’re a a level where you can appreciate competition see the larger frame of human sexual l progression.
Until Next Time,