• Scarcity Mentality

    by AlphaWolf & Co.

    Quick Definition: A mental metaphor that one holds that says “every resource in life has a limited availability and that protection of existing assets should prioritize over the accumulation of new ones.”

    Full Definition:

    A lot of AFCs, as perceived by PUAs, have an extreme case of scarcity mentality. Unless a normal guy is a club promoter, restaurant owner, or the best looking recent college grad in the office, his inflow of new girls is extremely limited by any PUA’s standard. Therefore, he tends to treat girls in his life as prized possessions instead of “just another girl,” and this mentality often leads to wasted potential sexual partners. Even if the guy is relatively good looking, his power is limited in the relationship, and he often feels content rather than happy.

    Scarcity Mentality applies to economics and money. Communists might argue that a scarcity mentality is good in times of war or extreme duress. After all, we are in survival mode. In other times, a growing capitalistic society where the pie is enough for everyone, a scarcity mentality may have an extreme opportunity cost for the business owner. Similarly, those guys who don’t get new girls or create a social vehicle for meeting new women will feel limited in their existing sphere of influence. Guys who have a scarcity mentality tend to beg for phone numbers or feel like they have to get something from someone or something extremely bad will happen. This mental frame is often the source of jealousy, anger, and even envy among friends.

    In general, the pick up community teaches the concept of “scarcity mentality” to encourage students to approach, and not view a “failed pick up” as anything more than a learning experience. It also helps students be in the moment as opposed to always going for an outcome. As Mystery correctly reminded us, to become a master, always focus on “process over outcome.”

    Related Links:


    Never, ever, have a scarcity mentality when approaching women you don’t know.

    Related Terms: AA, AI, Scarcity Mentality, Blow Out, CB, Next, HB, SHB, Abundance Mentality, Abundance, Girlfriend, Pivot, Social Circle, Lifestyle, Tribe

  • Look for more high value dating advice? Then download these 8 style attraction hacks that women find most attractive in men. This guide helps you create instant attraction at first sight so the rest of the dating process flows like water for you.

    Want to learn how to approach properly and feel good about it? Download the new High Integrity Approach Blueprint:

    If you are struggling to get dates with girls you are excited about, download the step-by-step first 3 messages guide so you understand what your ideal girls are thinking. These 3 texts have been field-tested by hundreds of guys over the last 10 years tp get amazing dates on the first few messages.

  • Related Posts

    Leave a Comment

    This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google Privacy Policy and Terms of Service apply.