Quick Definition: Influencing a subject before the actual event.
The preloading sequence is an important factor of NLP as well as the social engineer. Marketing programs and movie trailers use the idea of preloading to build anticipating and the expected result of using a product or watching a movie. “You’ll never use a cleaner vacuum!”
In pick-up, the concept can be applied to manipulate a girl or set the stage for an event. It is simply a tool although its implication is manipulative because it is a term used by social hacking.
For example, a social engineer can send a letter to the secretary of a VP, indicating who he is and when he will call. This “official” document preloads her mind with his authority, and on the day that he calls, he is more likely to be transferred to the VP. Or a letter in the mail has come in with the person’s social security number and address. That person is more inclined to reply with their password information for their online banking account.
In text game, you can text a girl that you will be calling her at 8:00pm on Sunday. This sets a precedence and they are more likely to oblige. Similarly, you can preload events like threesomes or certain hook ups in a subtle way, “Honey, remember that time you told me that you liked blondes? Well, meet Cindy”.
Sometimes prior research (Preloading) can be used to obtain general information about a girl, such as her alma mater, her favorite movie, and her various behavior patterns. This can be used against her to generate more interest than just being the next guy. Some consider this manipulative, while others say it simply pays to do your research.
We can preload the idea of an after party early in the evening.