Quick Definition: The various pitfalls of “player” game that results in losing the girl over a longer period of time, or losing out on sex with her more than once.
- Not justifying a mutual attraction (A-3)
- Disregarding Comfort
- Buyer’s Remorse – sleeping with her too fast, buyer wants a refund
Remember, the point of no return = seduction, sexual foreplay will trigger this. So avoid sexual foreplay until proper comfort has been built. She has to believe that you want to hangout with her in comfort and slight arousal before and after sex.
Non sexual kissing can be done in comfort – and welcomed, but don’t push it too far or too fast. Depending on the girls’ liberal views and the way she experiences sex, you may want to calibrate. Generally speaking, the 7 hour rule applies to most girls.
If a girl is more sexually open or on vacation, this rule may be skipped. You may also want to ask casually how many boyfriends or guys she’s dated. The more guys she’s had sex with, the more likely she is more comfortable with sex. A girl with only 1 boyfriend before, for example, may not be ideal for a faster pull.
Player Trap can also have the undesirable effect of triggered stage 5 clinger girls, who become obsessed with the player after sex. Overall, it is just more skillful and safe to play solid game – 7 hours or more, unless you are on vacation or specifically pushing for a one night stand only.