Paul Janka

Paul Janka became famous for his Attraction Code ebook and his appearance on TV shows such as Dr. Phil. His method seems to focus on quick street approaches with swift number closes. He then systematically works those numbers for dates and other plans.

PUAs have criticized him for being overly reliant on their looks and also that his game is very specific to big cities such as New York.

Paul Janka Quotes

Judge a women based on how she behaves, not on how she looks.

This accomplishes at least two important things. First, it sets you apart from all the other men chasing her. A “hot” girl has legions of men doing her bidding. She’ll notice a guy who doesn’t grant her special treatment. She’ll respect you for your boundaries, EVEN IF SHE DISMISSES YOU AS NOT USEFUL TO HER. Of course, you can bend to her whims, but you’ll be in a lower status category immediately. Such an unequal pairing is not sustainable.

Secondly, it’s how a woman behaves (her character) that determines if you’ll be happy with her, not how she looks (which fade, anyhow).

As a man, you have two choices: the comfort and convenience of a committed relationship, or the uncertainty and excitement of the single life. If you choose the latter, you need to come to terms with an emotion that can bedevil you if you’re not careful: frustration.

Depending on your appetite and the rotation you employ, you may be seeing quite a number of girls per week. This is the benefit of learning how to pick up women. Carefree, fun, light and full of variety – that’s abundance at its best.

However, even the most seasoned player needs to deal with frustration because women can behave in a particularly irresponsible manner when they know things are casual. Of course, it depends on the girl, but many women feel entitled to break plans at the last minute, to be annoyingly vague or to be old-fashioned teases. I discuss strategies for mitigating this in Attraction Formula, but nothing is 100%. You’ll find yourself up against a wall sometimes, chasing smoke. Even the best of us do it. However, over time, you’ll learn to ferret out time-wasters and other false-starts.

Paul Janka Pictures

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Paul Janka on Dr Phil: