• Obstacle

    by AlphaWolf & Co.

    Quick Definition: A person or entity that tries to prevent a PUA from progressing with his target.

    Full Definition:

    *PUA Lingo does not endorse or support the use of these terms. We strive to describe them the best we can based on the seduction community’s uses for them in improving men’s (and some women’s) dating lives.

    An obstacle usually refers to a person that is preventing the PUA from closing his target. This can be the BF, a CB, a AMOG/AFOG, or another PUA trying to pick up the same girl at the same time. It is important to identify obstacles correctly early on (they could be allies!) and decide on a game plan to either diffuse them or blow them out.

    Sometimes, obstacles can be entities. For example, a moving target/set is naturally an obstacle, as objects in motion tend to stay in motion, and the PUA must break their pattern of movement to stop and start a conversation with a stranger.


    I had to take care of the obstacle before I could isolate the girl.

    Related Terms: CB, AMOG, AFOG, BF, Logistics, Mother Hen

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