Author: Giuseppe Notte
Context: Giuseppe explains the social narrative that puts a lot of pressure on guys to get girls, and how parents should put more emphasis on the boy developing strong character. The girls will come if he has the fundamental characteristics of a man
These days society puts an abnormal pressure on guys. From your early teens, other guys tend to measure you with the number of girlfriends you have or the number of girls you have laid. From early high school, a guy who has a girlfriend is considered to be cool.
If I had a teenage son, I would advise him to focus on perfecting himself instead of chasing girls. Society puts an abnormal pressure on younger (and even older) men. If you feel like you have to “prove yourself”, your success and chances with women have already been RUINED.
Have you noticed that if you stress yourself too much about a certain thing, you will be much more likely to fuck it up? Most people will fail badly when they have to prove themselves under pressure. It’s the same when it comes to getting girls. If you are pressured to get a girl because your buddies are constantly bugging you with your virginity or your being single, you will be guaranteed to get no girls at all.
The first step towards getting rid of this pressure put on you by society is understanding: Your value is not measured in the number of girls you fuck. Just keep this in mind to drop the great burden from your shoulders and open the way towards reaching your goal: getting women.
The second step is to get a hobby. Men with no life are very un-attractive to women. On the other hand, a man who is very passionate about something (whether it’s a sport he is doing, playing the guitar, racing with his car, collecting rare insects or anything else you can think of) is very attractive to girls.
Lastly, the third step to become successful with women is putting in some work instead of feeling sorry for yourself. Nothing will fall into your laps from the sky unless you work for it. There is no need to stress yourself too much, simply have the will to learn and improve yourself. There is a lot of information available on the topic of seduction online, and by doing a little bit of research it’s easy to find some useful tips.
If you have decided to act right now and don’t want to spend months or years figuring out what works and what doesn’t work from the pool of information found online, I suggest you check out my e-book, called “All About Women: The Encyclopedia Of Seduction” which covers each and every topic of the seduction process, from A to the Z.
And finally, don’t forget that everything sounds great in theory but you will only get what you want if you act and put in the work necessary. Don’t fall into the trap of becoming a seduction scientist who sits in front of his computer all day and has no life, just go out and decide to get the kind of women you have always wanted. Believe me, everything you need to make this reality is in you. Just bring it out!