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A neg opener is a powerful opener type. It quickly subcommunicates several things:
- You are not afraid to potentially offend her
- Right off the bat, you lowered her value playfully
- You are displaying wit and intelligence (if opener is good and delivered properly)
- A good neg, should result in laughter, so a good neg opener will make her laugh
- You are so…. in my way! (Pause). I jest. So who are you?
- You’re so cute! (Pet her head) Can you do tricks?
- ME: [after girl bumps into me] Whoa, if you wanted to meet me, you could just say Hi.
- Your hair is so fine, kind of like the mane of a fine stallion
- Hey look! It’s the Powerpuff girls / Spice girls!
So how much did you pay all these guys to stand next to you?