• Letting Her Chase You

    by AlphaWolf & Co.

    Quick Definition: The ability to give the woman an opportunity to win your affections, where appropriate within a dynamic interaction.

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    Julien explains in succinct points:

    • You need to give her room to chase you to feel like she “earned” you
    • Most guys assume she will leave if you stop “doing”. Not true. Don’t be afraid of this.
    • Give her an opportunity to chase, you don’t need it, you’re giving HER A CHANCE
    • Create a verbal vacuum (conversational vacuum)
    • Stare at her, expectant: “it’s your turn to partake in this interaction. You don’t have to, I don’t need you to, but let’s see what’s you’ve got”
    • Do a takeaway “Hey! You’re supposed to fight for me!” Do it playfully, “you would really let me go? What the fuck”
    • “Oh you’re 26. Interesting” – slight IOD/neg
    • Kiss “you’re a horrible kisser” – strips away validation
    • Look, I like you ok, just be cool. Be cool – frames her as the chaser, and that she needs to be cool to be with you.
    • All of this amplifies sexual tension, amplifies the fact that she’s working for you

    There are times when a man needs to chase the girl, the problem is, this dynamic quickly stalls or becomes boring. She needs to invest too.

    Usage: Let her chase you, not the only way around mate.

    Related Terms: Blowout, C&B, Eject, Rejection, Set, IOD, Role Reversal, Sexual Tension, Cat String Theory, Push and Pull

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