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  • Lair / Seduction Lairs

    By on December 27, 2008

    Quick Definition: A group, club, or informal gathering of men from a specific geographic area who get together for the specific purpose of improving their skills with women.

    Full Definition:

    Lairs have developed rapidly all over the world with the advent of the internet and mainstream cultural movement of the seduction community. Usually, cities with large populations have at least one lair that is organized by volunteers within the community. Prominent lairs in major cities such as San Francisco regularly host meetings, and gurus such as Style, Mystery, Zan still stop by to speak to such groups. Pickup lairs are a great place for aPUAs and PUAs to gather together and improve their pickup skills and find local wings to go sarging with.

    Lairs often host group outings and special events where prominent pickup gurus come to speak, and typically provide online resources and forums for its members. Increasingly, lairs have been attracting wing girls, who have taken a fascination with learning seduction techniques. The core of the lairs, however, remains focused on male bonding and knowledge sharing.

    Zan on the role of lairs at Project San Francisco:


    The San Francisco Lair meetings are hosted in Chinatown.

    Related Terms: Seduction Community, PUA, Game, Wing, Social Gathering Related Links:

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    • Hey Casual, the Bristollair list has not been updated in years, think about changing it to FastSeduction, which is hosting the “official” list now.

    • Thanks, didn’t notice that. Updated the link.

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