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  • Kino Escalation

    By on December 26, 2008

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    Quick Definition: The physical escalation of kinesthetics (kino) with a woman, from the initial touch to sex.

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    Kino is one of the most powerful nonverbal ways of communicating with a woman. It is one of the main pillars of seduction and key tool in the PUA’s toolbox. However, just randomly touching a woman will not necessarily get a PUA the results that he wants. Hence, there needs to be a logical progression to the escalation of kino.

    Generally, one wants to begin kinoing by touching somewhere on a woman that is non-threatening and non-sexual. This is usually the hands or the shoulders, and can be done through hand shakes, high fives, playful pushes, etc.

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    This is considered a sexual touch, as opposed to a non-sexual touch

    As the woman grows accustomed to the PUA’s touch, he can then escalate to more intimate parts of the woman’s body, starting with the legs, then the torso, and finally the face and hair. From there, it is only a small step to go in for a kiss and move into direct sexual escalation.

    While the above is a solid progression for kino escalation, it possible to skip steps along the process and jump directly into more intimate forms of kino, depending on the woman’s attraction and compliance levels. For example, it is possible to get into a sexual state and immediately go in for a kiss without having previously established any kino. Making such a jump requires calibration, however, or it will result in a blow out.

    A structured sequence for kino escalation is known as a Kino Escalation Ladder.

    In the Tao of Badass, Josh Pellicer teaches the three levels of touch:

    1. Temporary touch – brief touching of non-threatening body parts. The shoulder, outer hand, upper back. Less than 3 seconds
    2. Deliberate touch – deliberate touching of a person, that they know it on a conscious level. About 5 seconds. Must be done once initial trust is established, can leave a lasting impression when done right. If too long, or done too early in a set, can make you seem like a creep
    3. Constant touch – seduction. You leave your hand there, and you’re escalating. This is often related to foreplay or very strong sexual attraction.

    Gambler breaks down types of kino escalation:

    Related Terms: Kino, Kino Escalation Ladder, Body Language, Sexual State, Compliance, Consistency

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    • Nice web site. I think Vin Dicarlo has a book or two out on kino escalation ladder. If you guys have questions about dating, women, and relationships, Let me know. I am always happy hear from you guys. Just remember that it is no big deal. As always, let me know what you think.

    • what the

      and the talking leads to touching and the touching leads to sex, and then there is no mystery left

    • I’ve always read that it should be a smooth gradual progression. Just have the intent to touch her and do what comes naturally otherwise it’ll be awkward. Get out of your mind and into feeling the moment.

    • Lust

      Hmm interesting I’ve always been a natural but i recently found out about PUA’s and i was wondering if theres any here in SF i need some wings to go Sarging

    • Hey Lust

      Welcome. Check the San Francisco Lair (Google it)

    • Man you are sick…
      as a skilled ex professional PUA I can tell you that this is sick, and you are going to regret much growing up…
      Advertising this manipulative skills publicly, in a world of psychos and in a psychopathic society as the american one may make you feel like a winner, but trust me, you are going to need professional assistance. And I wish for your own sake that this is going to happen soon.

      • johnny

        wow ur such a pu@@y. Women expect you to make the first move and they love it when you try, even when they’re not thinking about banging you. There are exceptions of course, like if ur ass ugly or smelly. Kino Escalation helps a man do it the right way, so the girl doesn’t feel threatned by you. They appreciate a man who tries, that includes touching, so long as he knows when to stop. What a pu@@y.

    • Someone really needs to point out that kinesthesis / kinesthesia / kinesthetics does NOT mean touch. In fact, there is nothing in the definition that implies touch. Kinesthesia is synonymous with proprioception, which is the ability to discern the location of one’s bodily parts without using any of the five senses. Close your eyes and touch your nose with your index finger. Assuming you grab your face to find your nose, you are using proprioception, aka kinesthesis. Have you ever noticed as you fall asleep that sometimes you can’t tell where your arm is? That is a loss of kinesthesia / proprioception.

      A word that DOES mean touch is “tactual”.

    • Assuming you *don’t grab your face to find your nose, you are using proprioception, aka kinesthesis.

    • Yo Origin. Want to write a guest post for us on the subject? – AW

    • Hey AW. I’m not sure there’s anything more to say about it. Mystery just chose the wrong word is all. So unfortunate when that happens. Like when Columbus named the native Americans “Indians”.

    • Well. I still say “kino” or “kineshetics” because I’m a total Mystery junkie and it sounds cool. And We still call Native Americans Indians.

    • Somebody once said something about old habits. :)

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