Jordan Harbinger is a lawyer turned pick up artist and social dynamics coach. In 2006, he started the Pickup Podcast (along with his co-host, AJ Harbinger), an online radio show featuring interviews with the top seduction gurus and practical advice for improving your game. Later, in 2007 he co-founded The Art of Charm, a New York City (and recently Los Angeles) based pickup company that focuses on teaching natural game and lifestyle development.
Jordan Harbinger Quotes
The ego is such a strange thing… it’s there to protect you in a way, but most of the time it actually prohibits you from becoming happy.
Men see value in women, initially, as youth and fertility– in other words, how good she looks on a general scale, while men’s value is based on a totally different set of criteria. Different channels, even.
A lot of guys think: “She’s special, so I have to treat her differently.” Once you start thinking that a girl is above being treated like everybody else, once she’s super special before you’ve even slept with her, you’re already sunk. She wants you to do this. She wants you to escalate. She wants you to sleep with her, just like the other girls. Don’t change up your game, don’t change the way you are for this other girl. She likes you for who you are, and who she thinks you are.
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