If you are really doing this just to please yourself, then you should dress according to your own standards! But on some level, I think that the positive reinforcement for yourself comes from your fit within society and also your relationship to the other life forms in the world.
Thus, you are dressing to appear attractive firstly to yourself, and subsequently to other people. That’s great!
As a start, checkout the newbies style drill and style attraction switches pages to get a general understanding of seducing with style.