When the guys at PUALingo asked me to write an article called ‘How To Pick Up Girls’ I have to admit, I was a bit concerned.
Not because I didn’t have anything to say on the subject, many glory stories could be shared or epic fails that we could laugh about together.
Instead my concern was how could I possibly convey how to pick up girls, something I have devoted my entire life to teaching guys how to do, in a single blog post.
So I’ll save the philosophical discussions for another time and simply get down to the ABSOLUTE ESSENTIALS of picking up girls. I promise that if you can get these simple things down, you will see immediate results that will shock you…you won’t even need any coaching or anything!
So here it is for you exclusively at PUALingo – The Zack Bauer Essential Pickup Checklist
1. Get Your Swagger Up!
I’m sure you have heard the old expression put your best foot forward. If you make a great first impression it not only makes the rest of the pick up a lot easier…we have heavily tested this. Instead of having to constantly work to sustain an interaction, you can get a girl really interested in you and pursue (or chase) you.
This means smile, breathe, stop sweating excessively, and fix your posture!
Don’t reject yourself before you even give the girl a chance to!
3. Talk Slow And Calm
Don’t rush to get your words out or you will give her the impression that you are nervous. Instead, think of what a cool and calm celebrity would sound like. Would they rush to get their words out? Would they talk to quietly to be heard? No! So neither should you.
4. What To Say (Opener)
Don’t kid yourself, if you are approaching a girl she will know you are hitting on her. Get used to it. That means it is NOT Ok to approach girls that you like and ask them if they “know how late this club stays open until.” I swear on my life some guy who was on a pickup program was saying to my girl while I was at the bar getting drinks. We were dying laughing.
Instead, be honest. If you are not comfortable telling a girl that you are interested in getting to know her, or finding out who she is you have a problem. If this is the case for you, that’s fine. At least you have identified a place where you might find yourself stumbling over and over.
When you are honest with girls, you will see your results skyrocket (again this is proven by years of hard research!) and you will find that your desires and the desires of the women you are meeting are not so different after all.
5. Get The Number
The #1 reason that we see our clients lose women is because they never even ASK for their phone numbers. If you want to see serious results, make it a habit to ask EVERY girl for her number. This is something we get all of our clients to do during any in-field training. Even if the girl is telling you how disgusting your teeth are, ask for the number.
The point is to build it into a habit that you are always getting new phone numbers all the time. You have nothing to lose, and everything to gain.
…and that’s really it.
If you can manage to do those simple things you will be picking up tons of girls in no time, trust me.