Freeze Out

Quick Definition: The deliberate but casual ignoring of an HB.

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Full Definition:

Freeze outs can occur in set, such as punishing a target HB for bad behavior and taking all the prior good feelings away and focusing the attention on her friends. It is important that the PUA has established a precedence of good feelings prior the freeze out, so that, when it occurs, it feels like the sunshine has gone away, along with him.

It is important not to be angry or overly emotional during a freeze out, or draw much attention to it at all, which would come across as spiteful or needy.

A freeze out is simply a response to how you really feel about someone if the interaction goes cold. You are making a conscious decision to stop responding positively if the energy is not being returned.


I felt the girl was disrespecting me a bit, so I freezed her out until she started chasing me again.

Related Terms: Neg, IOD, Cat String Theory, BHRR, LMR

Source: Mystery