Quick Definition: A seducer who expects to meet a woman and then engage in the sex act within moments.
Fool’s Mate Fantasy is not the same as SNL. A seducer who wants SNLs will run SNL game. However, a Fool Mate’s fantasy is someone who wants to date the girl or have other intentions, but instead ends up sleeping with her too soon, leading to the girl to not want a long term relationship with him.
In business, these types of fantasies turn into product refunds or ex-clients.
Girls will often sleep with guys and have buyer’s remorse later. As such, good game cannot be played by one that has a fool’s mate fantasy: that is, having delusions about sleeping with the girl right away without running solid game. The player must also have the intent of having a long term sexual relationship with the girl, but instead it turns out to be a fool’s mate.
Women can also have fool’s mate fantasy – the idea that if she sleeps with a guy quickly, he will become her boyfriend. Women also need to run solid game – by making sure he really knows her, values her, and actually feels like he worked for her. Human beings value things they invest time and energy in.
Henry has a Fool Mate’s Fantasy tonight