• Emotional Value

    by AlphaWolf & Co.

    Quick Definition: The emotional currency in social interaction; the “value” you give to others and others give you to in the form of emotions.

    Full Definition:

    Emotional value can take many forms but is first and foremost the currency of social interactions. It is the ‘value’ we give to others in the form of emotions. For example, humor, buying temperature, emotional state changes, and anything that stimulates the emotions are all forms of emotional value. Contrast this with NOT giving emotional value, which can often take the form of boring, uninteresting, platonic conversation (emotionally unstimulating). Confidence, dominance, and even being well dressed can also “give” emotional value in the sense that a women will feel an emotional state change in reaction to these things.

    Sometimes simply truly listening to a person without judgement is giving emotional value. In the American fast pace of life, many people often listen to others through a prism of their own biases and agendas. Truly listen to someone next time without reaction or judgement, simply nodding in agreement and acknowledgement. This is a great way to make deeper connections with women as well as men and friends in general.

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    Related Terms: Group Theory, Wingman, DHV, Emotional Connection, Triangular Gazing, BT Spike, Chick Crack

    Source: Seven

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    Richard | RichardShelmerdine.com April 25, 2010 - 1:02 am

    It’s all about giving value socially. Girls will talk and they will find out how valuable a man you are and the girls will come to you in huge waves :)

    David Black April 29, 2010 - 3:37 pm

    The more you give, the more you get.

    Td May 17, 2011 - 3:03 am

    Does anyone know any good references that can go into giving emotional value in more detail? I still confused

    alphawolf May 17, 2011 - 12:22 pm

    @TD, don’t overthink it. Emotional value is just social value we give that changes other people’s emotions, usually in a positive way.

    Negs have emotional value, for example because they are funny and makes the girl feel an emotional “spike”.

    During comfort, this type of emotional value is more intrinsic based – as in, is this person genuinely interested in me and listening. Before comfort, think of emotional value as attraction or emotional spikes.

    The correct response from giving high emotional value is laughter, smiles, and good feelings.


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