Quick Definition: Refers to the strength of your EQ and emotional durability during stressful times and life upheavals.
The more times you flinch, the more times you are rejected, the less that action affects you. I remember the first time I got harassed by a cop, I was shocked, how could she do this? After that, it was much more normal and I no longer freaked out when cops were around. Similarly, once you lose your virginity, be it kissing, sex, or relationships, you are less shell-shocked by it. Those who have been through tough relationships usually know what it feels like, and it helps them get over the next one faster.
A man (or woman) who has been in love, real love, knows that unconditional love is forever and does not exist in “time” sense. Therefore they understand that everything in this life is ephemeral and are more at peace. They also know that they can find love again.
Usage: Over time, with more approaches your emotional muscle strengthens.