Quick Definition: The exercise of influence and control in male and female relationships.
Dominance in pickup refers to the underlying male sexuality in being in control. At the core, most women want to be dominated by a man they respect. It is an attraction trigger because women have pre-wired them to select dominant men over non-dominant men in society. Natural selection has dictated that women who choose more dominant men have a higher survival value in passing on their genes. Dominance can be expressed in inner game, as well as through style and outer game.
A dominant style subcommunicates edginess and the ability to survive despite that fact that you don’t conform.
Dominance in pickup refers to your overall energy in leading and being the alpha male. Overall, remember that, as a man, the core your value comes down to SURVIVAL value. Your ability to lead. Your ability to be dominant. Your ability to walk the path of life that you choose. Tactically, this translates to: strong body languages, mastery of speech and language, praising people for their success, not hesitating to go after what you want (going up to girls), not putting up with negative or bad behavior, controlled eye contact, and a dominant style.
Dominance can also refer to the degree of male dominance in a relationship. This type of dominance is slightly different than dominance in sexual attraction. Relationship dominance stems from life direction, sexual patterns, conversational patterns, and the overall power dynamics between the people in the relationship.
Sometimes, a guy can be “over-dominant” for a girl. A fighter with body tattoos may be too much for the nerdy library cutie at school. Being overly dominant turns this natural sexual energy into a threatening vibe, instead of sexual attraction. Strippers and porn stars, because of their profession, deal with perverts and stalkers. Because of their protection needs, they tend to want men with a higher level of physical dominance.
Rob needs to work on his dominance vibe around women
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