David Deida

David Deida Bio

Deida Deida is a psychologist and scholar who spent much of his early life in academia, studying male and female roles in evolutionary psychology and artificial intelligence. In the early 1990s, he started his spiritual lessons under Adi Da Samraj and has since published several nonreligious books on sexual intimacy and the roles of male and female sexuality within society’s context.

The seduction community discovered his teachings as the Internet took hold of PUAs everywhere, and Deia’s book “The Way of the Superior Man” became a popular text within the PUA community that was seeking context for the new role of an enlightened man on his path.

Deida published his book The Enlightened Sex Manual: Sexual Skills for the Superior Lover in 2004 and he discusses the topics of love and expanded awareness in his 2007 book Instant Enlightenment.

David Deida Quotes

“Everything you do right now ripples outward and affects everyone. Your posture can shine your heart or transmit anxiety. Your breath can radiate love or muddy the room in depression. Your glance can awaken joy. Your words can inspire freedom. Your every act can open hearts and minds.” ― David Deida, Blue Truth: A Spiritual Guide to Life & Death and Love & Sex

“If you are waiting for anything in order to live and love without holding back, then you suffer.”

“The most erotic moment for a woman is feeling that you are Shiva, the divine masculine: unperturbable, totally loving, fully present, and all-pervading. She cannot move you, because you already are what you are, with or without her. She cannot scare you away, because you already penetrate her in fearless love, pervading her heart and body. She cannot distract you, because your one-pointed commitment to truth will not bend to her wiles. Feeling this hugeness of love and freedom in you, she can trust you, utterly, and surrender her testing in celebration of love.”

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Videos of one of David’s seminars: (I found it really enlightening)