Quick Definition: A sharing of features or characteristics in common; possession or manifestation of common attributes between two people.
Instead of agreeing with everything she says, a PUA should also build tension into the interaction with push and pull, BHRR, banter and reward and relate to make her feel like these commonalities are hard-won. A combination of MM’s cat string theory and JM’s banter works wonders, and the commonalities discovered will be valued a lot more by her because of it.
HB: “I was born in Italy.”
PUA: “Oh wow, I can’t even talk to you right now!”
HB: “Why not?”
PUA: “This is just too weird. Guess where I was born?”
PUA: Pause. “I was born in Vatican City. That’s really neat that you were born in Italy. I love the culture, the food. I am adopting you as my little sister! If things don’t work out here, we’ll move to the streets of Rome and sell strawberry ice cream. Italian style!”
HB: (will likely at this point be laughing really loud and girlish) “Ok! hehe”