• Cold Approach

    by AlphaWolf & Co.

    Quick Definition: The art of approaching and opening a girl or set that the PUA has never met before.

    Full Definition:

    The cold approach pick up, for many that started out in the game, is the ultimate form of seduction. It empitomizes the ability to meet a girl and establish a romantic or seductive relationship with her in the first 15-30 minutes. Ultimately, the ability to successfully open a cold approach is a skill set that allows him to be truly free in the world.

    He may be visiting a different city or country, but he will know, for the most part, how to meet and make a sexually favorable impression with the opposite sex.

    However, AFCs and some naturals often argue that cold approaches are not necessary if one has a growing social circle where he can find GFs. Gambler argues in The Natural Art of Seduction that the cold approach is what gives ultimate choice: to meet a girl who is not part of your life and have the skill set to make her part of your reality. Mystery states that “the cold approach pickup – it is a beautiful art form.”

    Ultimately, any successful PUA has had his share of cold approaches in order to get to where he is.


    I did a dozen cold approaches at the club the other night.

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    Related Terms: AA, Social Circle Game, Street Game, Group Theory, Hook Point, DHV, AI, Forced IOI, Eye Contact

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    PUA Hub January 10, 2010 - 7:54 pm

    cold approach is probably my favorite type of game. It’s the easiest way to get a TON of dates

    Nick January 15, 2011 - 2:27 am

    The cold approach can be great practice because you are less likely to care if a stranger rejects you.

    Mercenary May 9, 2011 - 11:46 pm

    well cold approaches have many benefits, you can gain pawns/pivots, boost friends, get some preselection going ect. although ts strongest point is you can become who ever you wish to be. its not lying its flirting hahaha

    Mothman454 July 14, 2012 - 3:24 pm

    I love the Cold Approach; but I must make the effort to add a little padding in between “Hi, how you doing today”? and “Are you single”? Practice, practice, practice.


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