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Many PUAs get stuck on the road or get tangled up in learning routine after routines. Ozzie from RSD talks about the mentality of the Closer in the RSD Transformations seminar. Ozzie describes the closer as a guy who “make the ho say no.” In other words, push and escalate and fail hard, but TRY.
When a batter swings full force, he either misses spectacularly or hits a home run. A closer doesn’t settle for a number, he doesn’t settle for a kiss. He goes for the full close. He pushes every interaction to the fullest.
The closer mentality, which is very “hunter” focused, is a great way to make newbies break out of their comfort zones, or push an intermediate PUA to advance his game to more consistent lays. Despite the benefits of intimacy and developing relationships, there needs to be results. In the game of seduction, sex is one of these performance metrics.
Example of a closer escalating:
Be a closer tonight and push every interaction as far as you can.