Quick Definition: Focusing on escalating physical contact with a consenting female, as it is believed the cavemen did before language developed.
*Please note, that PUA Lingo only describes the way the community uses the term and we do not endorse nor support the use of these techniques.
Going “caveman” refers to helping guys focus on minimal verbal talk and more kino and direct physical escalation. It is a great way to get rid of AA and can also assist some shy rAFCs in re-calibrating and understanding limits in physical escalation. Essentially, the PUA will physically escalate until he gets a “stop” or “no” from the target. It is usually done a night game as a way for the student to understand physical touch and dominance and what it feels like to lead as a man.
Some examples of cavemanning include grabbing a girl by the waist and pulling her towards you right before a kiss, or, in the bedroom, picking up a girl and throwing her onto the bed. Please note that these techniques assume that the girl is already into you, and the cavemanning moves are done in a way to build up sexual tension.
Done properly, cavemanning is very dominant and attractive. Calibration is important with cavemanning, and it is important to properly gauge a woman’s buying temperature and respect her real boundaries and physical limits.
Generally speaking, this technique is taught to guys who are shy or physically not dominant, to gain an understanding of what it means to have physical dominance. Guys who are already physically dominant do not need to learn this.
A common misconception of cavemanning means disregarding how the woman feels. It is understanding how she feels, and pushing a little to the boundaries, but never going too far. Done correctly, it can be attractive. Done incorrectly, it gets annoying and awkward, and the artist can end up going to jail.