“What if” Pain

AKA Regret Pain Quick Definition: The accumulated pain of regret that comes from inaction over a few sets, or a longer period of time in the PUA’s life. Full Definition: When you fail to sarge a target, and think later ‘what if?’ What if she was attracted to you and it turned into a wonderful close?… Read More

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Warm Alpha

Quick Definition: The congruent behavior of an individual (usually a man) who conveys all the alpha qualities of a tribal leader, but does so without creating mistrust, friction, or otherwise negative feelings. Instead, the warm alpha leader is able to lead using positive characteristics. Full Definition: As PUAs, we are already aware of the concept… Read More

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Warm Approach

Quick Definition: An approach on a woman with whom the PUA is already acquainted, or who shows some interest in him. Full Definition: A warm approach is a blanket term used to refer to any approach that is not a cold approach on a complete stranger. Usually, this takes place during social circle game, where… Read More

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Warm-Up Set

Quick Definition: The first few sets that a PUA approaches when he goes sarging, which gets him into a social mode. Full Definition: Warm-up sets are a helpful tool for getting a PUA into state. It is often difficult for people to get into a fun, party atmosphere, especially if one works in a boring… Read More

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Wavering

Quick Definition: Being unsure about a certain decision; showing weak intent in a pick up situation. Full Definition: Newbies tend to waiver, and expert PUAs do not. Wavering, unsure of what to do is fine for a newbie. Generally speaking, newbies want to take action at all times, because even those that lead to mistakes can… Read More

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Way Below Average Frustrated Chump (WBAFC)

Quick Definition: An AFC that is significantly below average in terms of skills with women. Full Definition: Think Andy from The 40 Year Old Virgin: WBAFCs will have a long time learning game, as their regular social skills are also at low levels. Most often, these types of AFCs are better off just going out… Read More

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Way of Being

Quick Definition: The natural way a person moves through life. Full Definition: Matador explains this in the Venusian Arts: Have you ever been attracted to somebody in a non-sexual way, and yet they possess high value for you but you don’t know why? A true, inspiring tribal leader or shaman will make a woman feel protected and this surrogate,… Read More

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Waypoint

Quick Definition: A reference point that shows how people in a set know each other, which can be used by the PUA to plan out his logistics. Full Definition: Waypoints are an important part of determining the logistics of a set. For example, if the girl is the guy’s sister in a 2-set, it is… Read More

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Window of Escalation

Quick Definition: Specific time frames where the opportunity to escalate is presented by the girl and/or by situational circumstance. *PUA Lingo does not endorse or support the use of these terms. We strive to describe them the best we can based on the seduction community’s uses for them in improving men’s (and some women’s) dating… Read More

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