• Rebound Relationship

    Quick Definition: A relationship that occurs right after the termination of a significant long-term relationship. Full Definition: It’s normal to go through a period of grief after ending a significant romantic relationship. And the length of this grieving period will depend on a number of factors like the emotional connection that existed and the length of… Read More

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    Recalcitrant Experience

    Quick Definition: An experience that shatters the web of beliefs a person has built up as a way of maintaining his worldview. Full Definition: In Tyler Durden’s Blueprint, he explains the concept of recalcitrant experience in detail: 1. A person has to be of a certain mindset to sense a misalignment between their psychological certainty and… Read More

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    Recovering Average Frustrated Chump (rAFC)

    AKA Recovering AFC Quick Definition: Recovering Average Frustrated Chump (RAFC, rAFC). Full Definition: Although the RAFC now knows of a new subculture devoted to the art of seduction, like drug addict, it is sometimes possible to relapse to a normal, mundane life. For every AFC that decides to make the commitment to become a better… Read More

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    Recovery

    Quick Definition: A turnaround of a stalling or bad set that becomes a successful pickup. Full Definition: It is usually possible for a PUA to recover a set, even if it is going poorly. Things can go bad at every stage of the pickup, but there are usually ways to get around them. A poor… Read More

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    Recycle

    Quick Definition: Moving onto a new location after a PUA has approached most or all of the available HBs in a given venue. Full Definition: Recycling is done after assessing a venue and determining that most of the sets have been approached. Sometimes, these go well, but usually, if that many sets have taken place… Read More

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    Reference Points

    AKA “Reference Experiences” Quick Definition: The focal points of experience in various in-field situations. Full Definition: Reference points fuel the mindset behind anticipated response. The new PUA who gets coaching to go into the dance floor with 100% confidence and approach the highest BT set, for example, will garner reference points each time he succeeds… Read More

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    Refractory Emotional State

    Quick Definition: A period during which we reject any signals contradictory to our current emotional state. Full Definition: According to psychologist Dr. Paul Ekman, a refractory emotional state is a period of time which accompanies an emotion, during which our mind rejects or ignores any reasonable interpretations or advice that isn’t congruent with our own view… Read More

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    Reframe

    Quick Definition: To say or do something that alters the context (“frame”) through which someone sees an idea or situation. Full Definition: Reframing is a key strategy in all areas of life, as even data can be subjective. There are many ways to reframe in a PU situation. If the girl is shit testing the… Read More

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    Rejection

    Quick Definition: When a girl has seen Low Value behavior in the PUA and has lost all attraction for him, determining that he does not have high S&R Value. Full Definition: (Credit Dirk Diggler) Rejection is nothing the PUA should take personally. In fact, for many rAFCs, rejection should be sought after in the beginning… Read More

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