Quick Definition: To transition between the comfort and seduction stages of pickup. A phase-shift can be a general change in communication style, as well as a phase-shift routine. Full Definition: Phase-shifting is transitioning from the rapport building phase of pickup, where you’re getting to know each other, to actual sexual escalation. There are different guidelines… Read More
Quick Definition: The purposes of one’s life of an average of 73 years (in the US) and what we accomplish with it. Full Definition: According to Eckhart Tolle we have 2 major purposes in life: Inner Purpose – this is the spiritual journey to realize that happiness is now and that peace is attainable by all.… Read More
Quick Definition: Matching or getting in touch with a person’s emotional state in order to build rapport and the lead the interaction. Full Definition: Pacing is the technique of mirroring someone’s emotional or mental state in order to establish rapport with them. When a PUA paces an interaction, he puts himself in the other person’s… Read More
Quick Definition: A element of darkness cast by the ego that creates human suffering. Full Definition: Ekchard explains this better than me in The Power of Now: “The pain-body, which is the dark shadow cast by the ego, is actually afraid of the light of your consciousness. It is afraid of being found out. Its survival… Read More
Quick Definition: The affinity and attachment that develops between a male and female for the purpose of raising an infant to adulthood. Pair bonding in humans is in part controlled by chemicals (such as oxytocin) in the brain. Full Definition: Pair bonding historically has assisted in the survival of our species. Having sex releases the… Read More
AKA Paradoxical theories Quick Definition: A term used to describe conflicting ideas that appear in pickup and seduction. Full Definition: Tyler Durden talks about paradoxical realities in the Cliff’s list seminar of 2005. In it, he describes ideas and teachings that seem to contradict one another. Here are some examples of game paradoxes that can… Read More
Quick Definition: A form of social rule breaking that occurs when someone commits a certain behavior error at a party. Full Definition: Embracing the life of a pickup artist is an adventure. And if you go all in and play the game right, it’ll lead you to some pretty insane situations. The type of situations that… Read More
Quick Definition: The type of girl that is either naturally in “party mode” or going through a period in her life where she just wants to have fun and party! Full Definition: Women are emotional creatures, and the effect of estrogen and other hormones means that they feel emotions on a stronger and deeper level… Read More
Quick Definition: IOIs that involve a lack of action from the target HB. Full Definition: A lack of action can also signal interest from a girl towards the PUA. Examples of passive IOIs include but are not limited to: Her friends goes to bathroom she stays Her friends goes to dance, she stays She doesn’t flinch… Read More