Observer / Observed

Quick Definition: A person who is watching / A person who is being watched by the crowd Full Definition: In the Mystery Method, Mystery refers to certain individuals and events in the club as the observer vs. the observed. The observers are people who don’t do anything and never take action. The observed are interacting with… Read More

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Obstacle

Quick Definition: A person or entity that tries to prevent a PUA from progressing with his target. Full Definition: *PUA Lingo does not endorse or support the use of these terms. We strive to describe them the best we can based on the seduction community’s uses for them in improving men’s (and some women’s) dating… Read More

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Omega Male

Quick Definition: The lowest member of a social hierarchy, who is subordinate to everyone else. Full Definition: In the animal kingdom, the omega male is the lowest member of the social group. They are the opposite of the alpha male—they are weak, subordinate, and last to have access to resources such as food. Many omegas… Read More

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One Night Stand (ONS)

Quick Definition: A brief and casual sexual encounter between a PUA and a HB/multiple HBs. *PUA Lingo does not endorse or support the use of these terms. We strive to describe them the best we can based on the seduction community’s uses for them in improving men’s (and some women’s) dating lives. Full Definition: One… Read More

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One-gina

Quick Definition: A complex men suffer from soon after getting into a relationship, where they can only have sex with one girl. Full Definition: Fidelity isn’t a bad thing; especially when you’re in a serious relationship with a girl who feels the same way as you do. But having 0ne-gina can lead to a lot of… Read More

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Oneitis

Quick Definition: A “disease” (hence the ‘itis) where a man is stuck on one girl and feels that she is “the one,” usually to the detriment of having any romantic relationship with her. Full Definition: Oneitis is the seduction community’s play on “itis” as a disease to refer to when a guy falls hard for… Read More

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Online Game

Quick Definition: The practice of meeting women online, either on dating sites or general purpose social networking sites, such as Facebook or Instagram. Recently, even twitter and Snapchat. Full Definition: Online game leverages the power of the internet for dating. A PUA (or AFC) can carve out a niche in the online dating market and… Read More

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Open

Quick Definition: To begin a conversation with a person or a group of people. Full Definition: The word “open,” as it is used in the community, stems from Mystery, who borrowed the term from magicians, who use it to refer to starting a performance (“opening a set”). Opening is one of the first steps in… Read More

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Open Ended Question (OEQ)

Quick Definition: A question that cannot be answered with a short or one word answer. Full Definition: An open ended question is a question that is designed to elicit a full response from the respondent, rather than a brief one. It is the opposite of a closed ended question, which can be answered with a… Read More

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