• Beginner’s Hell

    Quick Definition: The first 6 months of getting into the game and the difficulty of the learning curve that affects most guys. Full Definition: For guys who are less socially calibrated (former geeks, nerds, loners), the beginning 6 months is literally a Beginner’s Hell. They must become more socially calibrated in interacting with people in… Read More

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    Behavior Patterns

    Quick Definition: A characteristic way in which an individual or group repeatedly acts in a given situation. Full Definition: We humans are creatures of habit. Once we do something that brings us toward a desired outcome or do something that distances us from an undesirable outcome, we tend to repeat that behavior over and over again.… Read More

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    Being Present

    Quick Definition: The process of fully experiencing the current moment in all of its capacity. Full Definition: In our individualistic (US) and capitalistic society, we often rush through life trying to get things done, become the next boss, or get to the top. On our journey, we often lose sight of the very great experiences… Read More

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    Belief System

    AKA “PUA Belief System” or “Life view of women” Quick Definition: A person’s accepted reality, especially his/her overall view of the opposite sex and their conditioned responces to them. Full Definition: For the most part, unless a man is gay, a monk, or alone on the island, a large part of his life is focused… Read More

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    Below Average Frustrated Chump (BAFC)

    Quick Definition: A man who is below average in terms of picking up women—worse than an Average Frustrated Chump. *PUA Lingo does not endorse or support the use of these terms. We strive to describe them the best we can based on the seduction community’s uses for them in improving men’s (and some women’s) dating… Read More

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    Best Self

    Quick Definition: The version of oneself that best represents his or her good qualities, usually exemplified in situations that require the pickup artist to be at his best. Full Definition: The notion of the Best Self is not new to the self improvement movement. One of the pillars of inner game involves a journey of self discovery that requires the artist to… Read More

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    Beta Male

    Quick Definition: A subordinate or inferior in a social hierarchy Full Definition: Beta Male is a term that comes from social biology and ethnology. In animal hierarchies, there is often an alpha male who is the de facto leader of the group; he has first pick when it comes to food and mates. The Beta… Read More

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    Big Mouth Theory

    Quick Definition: A theory that explains why, on average, people who talk more tend to have more success in life, as well as with women. Full Definition: Words are powerful, and speaking often has a reoccurring pattern of reinforcing someone’s own reality and frame. As with all concepts, there is a reversal when given in… Read More

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