• Backward Rationalization

    AKA Reverse Rationalization Quick Definition: The process of rationalizing emotional and behavioral decisions based on logic that makes sense for the person. Full Definition: To some degree, everyone backwards rationalizes certain events in life. As our perception of reality is seen through the filters of our personal lens and it is important for people to logically… Read More

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    Bad Boy

    Quick Definition: A pop culture icon, the Bad Boy refers to an archetype of a dominant male that women find naturally attractive. Full Definition: In pickup culture, the Bad Boy is a specific archetype that a PUA can embody or impersonate based on a pickup situation (not to be confused with Badboy, the pickup instructor… Read More

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    Bait, Hook, Reel, Release (BHRR)

    Quick Definition: A concept from Mystery best used during A3 (Qualification) and Comfort game to bait the woman to DHV herself to the artist and invest in him by asking genuine questions, which the artist can then reward her for. Full Definition: The BHRR metaphor can be found in many different areas of game theory… Read More

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    Ball Busting

    Quick Definition: Usually a reference to a female giving a guy a hard time, usually in jest, although sometimes in a mean-spirited way. Full Definition: Similar to the shit test, ball busting refers to girls making fun of guys, sometimes for no apparent reason. Unlike the shit test, it is not a conditioned response to see if the… Read More

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    Banter

    Quick Definition: A manner of communication that is witty and fun, often involving playful teasing. Full Definition: Banter is a type of communication that is often silly and meaningless. Its sole purpose is to create a fun experience with someone else. Banter creates a playful state so that the conversations do not turn into a… Read More

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    Batting Average Ratio

    Quick Definition: A mental score of successes and failures when interacting with women. Full Definition: A batting average ratio in pickup is your ratio of success to attempts when interacting with women. A pickup artist with a batting average ratio mentality is forever keeping score of his successes with women. He views every single interaction and attempt… Read More

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    Beautiful Woman Syndrome (BWS)

    Quick Definition: A condition that affects a large percentage of HB9s and HB10s whereby the individuals start developing undesirable characteristics because of their superior looks. It can also apply as the Beautiful Man Syndrome to male models and good looking men, although to a lesser degree as men’s sexual attractiveness is based on more than… Read More

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    Bedroom Eyes (Seducer Eyes)

    Quick Definition: A certain seductive look in a man’s or woman’s eyes that subcommunicates a desire for seduction and sex. Full Definition: Movie stars and models are very good at giving the Seducer Eyes look to the camera. This look is very effective if the woman is already attracted to you and has a high… Read More

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