“What if” Pain

AKA Regret Pain Quick Definition: The accumulated pain of regret that comes from inaction over a few sets, or a longer period of time in the PUA’s life. Full Definition: When you fail to sarge a target, and think later ‘what if?’ What if she was attracted to you and it turned into a wonderful close?… Read More

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1 Set / One Set

Quick Definition: A girl who is out by herself or has been left alone by her friends for a considerable period of time. Full Definition: The term one set or 1-set refers to a girl who is out alone or who has been left by herself by her friends. Mystery notes “It’s very rare to come… Read More

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101

Quick Definition: A method of keeping an interaction interesting by alternating between interest and disinterest at irregular intervals. Full Definition: Similar to the concept of “hot & cold” in psychology, 101 is a method to help keep you unpredictable. If you shower a girl with too much attention, you risk losing her attraction. There are many… Read More

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2 Second Rule

Quick Definition: The technique of pausing for two full seconds after someone has made a statement, to ensure that she has said everything she wanted to say. Full Definition: The 2 Second Rule is a conversational technique developed by Dan of Charisma Coaching. One of the qualities that women value most in men is the… Read More

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3 Minute Rule

Quick Definition:  The concept of avoiding sets that could be easily interrupted within the first 3 minutes. Full Definition: In the Mind of Mystery in-field videos, Mystery explains why he avoids sets that can be interrupted by friends, hired guns, or other factors within the first 3 minutes. This time limit may make you lose… Read More

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3 Second Rule

Quick Definition:  A rule that says you should approach a set within 3 seconds of seeing them, or them seeing you. Full Definition: The 3 Second Rule is guideline that many PUAs follow to overcome approach anxiety. Hesitating too much before an approach can lead to overthinking and nervousness. It can also creep a set out if… Read More

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6 Month Rule

Quick Definition: Tyler Durden’s philosophy that came from his own in-field experience explaining that if an artist goes out consistently in 6 months, the peak of his 6 month timeline will become the “norm” of his average going out night. Full Definition: 6 months is a long time to go out for most people. And to… Read More

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7 Hour Rule

Quick Definition: A rule of thumb for the average amount time it takes to build the comfort necessary for sex. *PUA Lingo does not endorse or support the use of these terms. We strive to describe them the best we can based on the seduction community’s uses for them in improving men’s (and some women’s)… Read More

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