Asian guy and White girl grind dancing
I was out this past weekend and I ran into something peculiar. It was Asian guys with white girls, but this time they were dancing with them. It was very interesting to see and I took out my phone and snapped a few pictures and even got a few videos. I asked for permission of course.
The first guy didn’t know the girl at all, he approached the girl somehow and started to dance with her. This guy didn’t really care what others thought of him and didn’t let his Asian background hold him back from being social and having a good time on the dance floor.
As you watch the video notice how sexual he is when dancing. Most Asian guys do not display enough sexuality or dominance. This guy clearly had it all and is a huge attractive quality to have.
The second person I ran into was with a white girl that he knew. They were not dating but just friends. I noticed how he was just as sexual as the first guy but also dominant in the way he danced with her.
As you can clearly see there are Asian guys out there who do have success outside their race, specifically with white girls. From judging their interaction with these girls they do not see themselves being Asian holding them back in the dating world. Of course these white girls do find Asian guys attractive, but you ahve to learn to display those attractive qualities to them.
You will find evidence for everything you believe in
If you’re an Asian male who still can’t believe your attractive enough to date while girls, remember that you will find evidence for everything you believe in. Even if you have to fake it and believe that white girls love you then so be it. There are things that you can do about it to learn to date white girls. Fake it till you make it then pretty soon you’ll start finding evidence that white girls do love you and you can approach them with ease.
How to dance with girls at the club and on the dance floor
Okay, with that said many of you are wondering how can I approach girls on the dance floor? You can learn how to grind dance, I will share some tips with you that are targeted towards Asian guys. To be successful on the dance floor and at the club you need 3 key things. It is the ability to be sexual, dominant, and playful.
For an Asian guy we lack the abilities in basically all 3 areas. If you can take a few tips in these areas your success with white girls will drastically go up.
1. Sexual – The ability to build sexual tension. On the dance floor it would be the way you look at the girl, what you say, for instance things like “You’re so fucking sexy”. This may be out of your comfort zone, believe me it is, but since us Asian guys lack some form of masculinity sexuality this will actually help you get the girl and be okay for you to say. Asian guys are usually non threatening and we can get away with saying this compared to for instance a black guy.
2. Dominant – We lack the ability to be dominant. Most Asian guys are short, so people and white girls put us in the stereotypical category that we can’t protect them due to our height. There are ways to overcome this stereotypical category. One way is to be more kinesthetic. Kinesthetic is the art of touching. Touching in a non creepy way but in a friendly and even flirtatious way.
Another way to be dominant is to lead. I always tell Asian guys to lead, since this shows dominance and dominance is attractive to girls. On the dance floor you’ll have to lead her dancing. Always push the interaction forward whether it be taking the girl off the dance floor to get a drink of water or fresh air. You as an Asian guy have to be take charge and lead. This is such a great and attractive characteristic to have as an Asian male.
3. Playful – Being playful would be the ability to make a girl laugh and having fun; be self-amusing. Humor is a great characteristic to have not only for Asian guys, but for any guy in general. The first thing that a girl always says when looking for a guy is that he must be funny.
Being playful covers being funny part and also being playful is not always being funny at all times, but being able to pull back. You push the interaction forward but you know how and when to stop. Some of my playful dancing would be taking a girls hand and waving it in the air, I would say “I’m just doing this so you look like and idiot”. Or my personal favorite is, I would point to her shirt and say you spilled something and as soon as she looks down flick her in the nose. These things are playful and self-amusing. Asian guys should be more self-amusing and not worry too much about what girls will think.
Learn to overcome Asian stereotypes
These 3 characteristics will dramatically help improve your chances with white girls not only on the dance floor and at the club, but in any social situation you are in. Remember you will find evidence for everything you believe in, so start believing you are attractive and start dancing with some girls at the club. Feel free to submit pictures.
Best of luck!