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This is a very technical term originating from RSD that typically is used by newbies to signal an action on (or at least recognition of) an AMOG in a set. It is basically a way for a wing to ask another wing for help with another male of the group. Generally, befriending him is enough and starting a conversation as friends.
Occasionally, other insecure guys will become over-reactive or sensitive when you talk to his group of girls. In this situation, the general guideline is to try to befriend him and calm him down. However, if he’s actively insulting you or pushing you away and the girls are actually interested in you, then AMOG tactics can be considered.
An example of an AMOG signal begin used happened to Vince one time. He was talking to a group of 4 girls. He high-fived one of the girls in the group and introduced himself. The girls were super excited and Vince’s read on their body language was very receptive and high interested. For example, one of the girls was bunny hopping and touching him a lot. The other 3 girls followed her toward him. As he was talking to one of the girls two guys in the group started shouting “she’s my girlfriend” (both at the same time). Vince looked at the girl and she shook her head slightly. Vince told me later that just by looking in her eyes, he knew she wanted him to stay. It was non-verbal. He stayed in set and engaged the girl and signaled for his friend to come in. Now, both artists are in the set. Eventually the guys started calming down but were still salty. He got the girl’s number, and left soon after.
In this example, it was clear that the 2 guys shouting “she’s my girlfriend” wasn’t really her boyfriend. Also, while Vince is trained in martial arts, he didn’t want to start a fight for no reason. He also saw no reason to tuck his tail between his legs and leave when these guys were clearly amogging him and probably insecure about the whole situation. So he used a AK signal for his friend to come in, and got the connection with a very cute girl.
Related Terms: AMOG, AFOG, Alpha