Hey… I know why you’re here, and I hope I have some answers for you.
I started this site when I was a 25 year old dude from California who figured out how to date really cute girls. This was back in 2012. I consider myself a really lucky and honest guy. Social skills and dynamics, when taught correctly, have enriched my life, and I hope it can give you some social superpowers too.
You know… I wasn’t always like this. In fact, I was a virgin until 23, and I was a total nerd and bullied in high school. When I graduated from college, I was still a virgin and totally lost with women and with relating to people in general. That changed when I decided to take responsibility for myself in learning social skills.
The journey was not fast. In fact, it took me a long time. But I believe it can be shorter for you, if you learn from my mistakes.
If you are looking for my latest work and a more holistic way of navigating through this world, checkout my newest project, High Integrity Skills.
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What’s “Quality Game” Vince?
Quality game is about 3 things:
- SCIENTIFIC: Like the old days before the mass internet seduction method, quality game is based on field-tested, verified (repeatable) reports of interactions that worked. I believe in measuring your results because what gets measured gets managed.
- GIVES VALUE, TAKES NONE: Quality game leaves the girl enlightens, and enhances both her life and yours. It is never used to take something from a woman or for abuse. The law of equivalent exchange is always in play in human interactions.
- FREEDOM WITH DATING: Quality game is about getting a partner you feel like you didn’t have to “settle” for. It encompasses both cold approach pickup and understand game from a long term point of view and focuses on raw attraction and its fundamental pillars. It’s about being your best, putting yourself out there with integrity, and attracting the best version of your ideal partner in life.
What is Style Attraction?
- I believe the fastest and easiest way to attract a woman is to work on your image (brand) and your subcommunications. Once this is mastered, it creates a powerful effect wherever you go, and you can attract women without saying much. In addition to this, you will become more confident as you learn to express yourself visually.
- Style Attraction can allow you to seduce a girl visually and quickly, without having to “work for it” or put in time.
- Mastery of Style Attraction also improves your self esteem, your career, and all aspects of your life (See Seduce With Style for more details)
Back to my story…
Rewind 7 years ago and I was … err … what HOT GIRLS would consider a “loooooserrrr!” ;0
Girls never really bothered to talk to me … and those few times that they did, I didn’t know what to do about it, and would usually end up embarrassingly ignoring her or saying something stupid like, “hi you’re hot”.
They were on a different level to me. Hell … a different planet to me. I just didn’t get it.
But oh how things have changed! =;0)
The Beginning of My Story
I, like most Asian kids, was really focused on 3 things: studying hard, obeying my parents, and studying hard. I graduated from college at 20, and went out into the real world without a clue on how to get girls. From 20 to 23, I worked a a high profile management consulting job in New York. I thought I had all the tools I needed: a great job, apartment, and car. Where were all the hotties that were promised to me if I followed all of society’s rules?!?
I was still in full chode mode, No “tangible results”
I was never a pessimistic person, but I started to feel dejected as more and more girls rejected me for no apparent reason. I would go up to a girl and say hello, and she would tell me she has a boyfriend. I realized that this was a problem I needed to fix, ASAP. I remember the first number I ever got from a girl I didn’t know from any social circle. She was a beautiful Texas blonde. When I called her, there was no reply. I left 3 voicemails in a week. Finally she called back, and I picked up with excitement. It was a guy on the line, “hey man, you are creeping her out. Please stop“. I remember sitting on my living room couch during this call. My roommate was with her hot girlfriend and I sat there for 20 minutes. I realized something needed to change, I just didn’t know how to go about it.
Journey To Getting Fucking Good (Short Version)
6 months later, I was in San Francisco and I met a guy named Bob. Bob told me about a book called “The Game” and I told him I am perfectly good on the basketball court. He laughed. A few weeks later I picked up the book on Amazon, and my life hasn’t been the same since. I immediately hooked up with the guys on the SF Lair and forums and went out. I remember in the first 30 days, I met my first girlfriend. She was a beautiful brunette from Kansas city. How I got her is still a mystery to me today, but I think my youthful enthusiasm seeped through all of my interactions and in my mind, there was just no way I could fail. We dated for a year and things were great, but never very deep.Since then, I have traveled a path of learning game whenever I am single (I choose to be in relationships if I want to). My path has led me to learn many different types of game: picking up girls a nightclubs, during the day, at the beach, at the mall, building a social circle, and I’ve had to privilege to interview some of the best in our industry.
As of this writing, I have the power to walk out downtown any Friday, Saturday or Sunday night. Usually I am with a friend or wing, but even if I was alone, I no longer feel fear. I know I can meet someone I fancy and start up an interaction with her that provides good emotions for both her and I.
Tangible Results and Freedom
Since then, I have been with girls of all sorts, from an 18 year old Lush store girl to a threesome with 2 Spanish MILFs, to beautiful blondes with varying shades of tan. This year marks my 30th anniversary on this plane, and I am looking for the ONE. I still believe in love. But enough about that. You’re here to learn how to get laid? :) Or if you are more like me, how to have freedom and options when it comes to your dating life.
The Importance of Style
There are many schools of thought and each “master” has their own attributes that they have accentuated on their journey to fulfill their dreams. For me, one of the most rewarding aspects of my path has been the mastery of personal style. The external communication of our identity, and how to use style to generate attraction and makes all of your interactions smoother. More importantly, how it can build your confidence and help you find an inner you that deserves its full expression in the world. My distillation of the secret of style attraction can be found in my men’s style book Seduce With Style
I view this the same way a person is allowed to build an avatar in an online virtual world: you can do this with your style in this world too!
My goal for “pick up artist (PUA)” Lingo is to make it as informative as possible, without commercial bias. Here’s to your success with women, and with life. Feel free to leave a comment if you have any questions.
About The Site
PUA Lingo is the Pick Up Artist’s Encyclopedia.
Started in 2008 as a simple glossary, the site has grown tremendously since then to include all of the world’s PUA terms and acronyms, as well as PUA routines, openers, product reviews, and more. If you’re looking for information about the seduction community, PUA Lingo is the best place to start.
Here are some of the things you can find on PUA Lingo:
- Over 1000+ PUA terms and acronyms, along with detailed definitions.
- A comprehensive list of PUA Routines and Openers.
- Profiles of the top Pick Up Artists and PUA companies.
- An active PUA blog with guest posts from the top PUA gurus.
We are constantly working to improve the site, so feel free to contact us if you have any suggestions or feedback. We are also always on the lookout for new terms to add to our glossary, so please submit any words that you find are missing from the site.
We hope that you find this guide to be helpful on your journey, and that you gain as much value from reading it as we have found from putting it together.
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AlphaWolf / Vince – May 2019
About the Original Authors
AlphaWolf (aka Vince Lin): AlphaWolf’s journey into the seduction community began one night out in San Francisco, when he ran into a friend who recommended reading “The Game”. AlphaWolf got the book, finished it in 2 days, and has not been the same ever since. Alpha’s foundation stems from structured game (Mystery Method) and he also believes in holistic self improvement. That is, learning the mechanics of social interactions but also the energy, the vibe and the overall lifestyle of the student. During his free time, Alpha is involved in entrepreneurship and enjoys a game of basketball with his friends.