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  • Social Ecosystem

    …to the group, with a useful database of how each part of the social system is connected (how people know each other), and what they value so that exchanges in value can be made. The deeper the understanding and execution of social skills, the more likely the PUA will attain a high level of social dexterity within a given environment. It is also to be within an ecosystem that doesn’t fully utilize a PUA’s skills. For example, if an…

    Social Narrative

    …anized because these traits define your social value in that society. It is important to evaluate when to fight a social narrative, and when to go along with it depending on one’s values, business, and the benefit to their tribe. Usage: America’s social narrative focuses on hard work, being the best, and enjoying life to the fullest via consumerism. Related Terms: Social Value, Social Hierarchy, Female Objectification, Misogynist,…

    Social Butterfly

    …is no longer an issue. So don’t let a social circle that hates you get the best of you. Move on, expand, and do not put up with lower standards than what you believe you deserve. Usage: Use a trust test to see if you have enough rapport with her at this point. Related Terms: AFOG, AMOG, Alpha Female, Alpha, Lifestyle, Social Circle, Wing, High Value, Lifestyle, Value, Social Value, Social Hierarchy, Alpha Male, Host, Emotional Connection,…

    Social Pipeline

    …r social pipeline is ok and full ok medium hotties, don’t give up. Keep it going. Over time, you will become higher and higher as long as you are on your path. This only happens in commercials: Usage: I have a pretty good social pipeline right now so Im just helping the newbies with their cold approaches. Related Terms: Social Hierarchy, Social Circle, Social Value, Social Connector, Social Deadend…

    Social Norms

    …This usually comes from a place of belief combined with power to execute. An example can be seen here in the movie Mean Girls, written by Tina Fey. The film takes a comical view of the social norms that influence most American high schools: Usage: In order to change the social norms you must first establish a base within that social circle. Related Terms: Social Pressure, Social Value, Social Circle, Social Trees, Social Connector, Social Dead…

    Social Nexus

    …he person who has the most connections and controls social fluidity in the whole venue. Social nexuses can be built in one night by having a high likability factor, combined with the ability to GIVE social value. Some of the skills that Social Nexus people are good at include: Access to clubs and events prior to the actual event Introductions to people that benefit from knowing each other Access to party items like booze, knowing the host, or…

    Social Proof

    …g perceived value of any particular person within a social setting, usually through explicit or implicit DHVs. Full Definition: Social proof is great for building attraction, value, and lowering bitch shields at any venue or social gathering. Short term social proof refers to the events that happen as soon as a PUA is in a venue (or as Mystery likes to say, “when you are on stage”), and each consecutive event that gives evidence of his higher…


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