Quick Definition: A belief that holds one back from reaching one’s true potential. Full Definition: Limiting beliefs are something that a PUA must overcome if he wishes to develop solid inner game. Limiting beliefs vary from person to person, but generally take the form of “I can’t” statements or limitations on what a person thinks they are capable of. Common limiting beliefs include: “Women don’t find me at…

In the recent decades, theories in psychology give more weight to how our beliefs affect the way we view life and the way we behave. The basic idea behind this is that our mind can only concentrate on a tiny part of what it receives via our 5 senses – it has to filter and only process a small part of the information we get. There is a famous story about how the Spanish navy conquered South America in the 16th century. When the Spanish ships appr…

…ot capture the sounds but it goes right into your subconscious! alphawolf Recording yourself on video, or voice audio and replaying back helps a lot. Often we sound different to ourselves than we come across to others (!) lee 1.I believe in myself regardless of what Anyone thinks!

2.I am a sexy motherfucker!

3.I am Confident

4.Women wanna fuck me everywhere I go.

5.I am awesome. Period

6.I’m cool, calm,& collected at all times…

Quick Definition: The area of game that deals with one’s personal development, inner beliefs, core values, and life goals. Full Definition: Inner game is the core of pickup. While learning techniques can help convey the characteristics of a man who has strong inner game, to remain train truly congruent as a pickup artist, one must develop solid inner game. Developing strong inner game will help one to overcome congruence tests, shit te…

Quick Definition: A Christian man who wants to practice the art of pick up while remaining true to his religious beliefs. Full Definition: AKA Christian Player There has been much controversy with the term “Christian PUA”, because it sounds like an oxymoron, like “Jumbo shrimp”, or “Fried Ice Cream”. However, it is possible to practice meeting girls, and finding girls who we can fall in love with. The Christi…

…a year and they’re starting to get you diminishing returns, you’re probably at that point. You probably need to start dropping them and teaching yourself how to improvise. That doesn’t mean you’ll always improvise everything 100%, but you want to progress to where you no longer need routines. You’ll no longer have to rely on them. You’ll be able to tell stories on the fly. You’ll be able to banter because you understand the concepts and underlyi…

Quick Definition: The inner values behind a person’s beliefs and life views. Full Definition: The true beliefs of a person’s world views and what he holds important. Loyalty, for example, can be a core value of a PUA. Others may have “Faith” or “Courage under fear” as core values. Core values can be developed by putting those values into practice in real life and living by those values. Related Terms: Core…

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…ybe she is a white girl and you are Asian guy. After sleeping with her, you realize that white girls are not that different, and you have a deep level identity shift. Maybe this won’t happen on the first girl, but after 10 girls, you realize that race has nothing to do with game. Usage: Carlo had a deep identity level change while he was out in Texas Related Terms: Inner Game, Congruence, Lifestyle, Situational Confidence, Core Confidence…

Quick Definition: A unit of cultural ideas, symbols, or practices that transfer and replicate from one mind to another through speech, gestures, rituals, or other cultural activities. Full Definition: Coined by Richard Dawkins in 1976, the term meme relates to the Greek word mimema for mimic. Memes act as cultural analogues to genes in that they self-replicate and respond to selective pressures, therefore becoming the cultural equivalent of a g…

Quick Definition: A man who is worthy of women choosing him for their sexual pleasures. Full Definition: The concept of the sex-worthy guy was developed by naturals within the community. They believed that you can tell if a guy is getting laid by simply observing him for 5 minutes. Is he well groomed and well dressed? How does he relate to people? Does he have that “cool, I just conquered the world” attitude that most women AND men…

Quick Definition: An experience that shatters the web of beliefs a person has built up as a way of maintaining his worldview. Full Definition: In Tyler Durden’s Blueprint, he explains the concept of recalcitrant experience in detail: 1. A person has to be of a certain mindset to sense a misalignment between their psychological certainty and their experience of the world. When this happens, we see a “break in the clouds” or a &…

AKA “PUA Belief System” or “Life view of women” Quick Definition: A person’s accepted reality, especially his/her overall view of the opposite sex and their conditioned responces to them. Full Definition: For the most part, unless a man is gay, a monk, or alone on the island, a large part of his life is focused on his relationships with women. As such, we all have beliefs that are constructed based on our reference points and experience with th…

Quick Definition: Refers to a person’s biggest fears and challenges in obtaining his dreams and goals in life, which may or may not be real but is a strong psychological barrier in moving forward in life. Full Definition: Inner Demons plague everyone. They are the barriers that make it hard for us to enjoy life or to achieve our pickup goals. For Jeffy, it was dealing with his past family life; for AFC Adam, it was about growing up poor and not…

…are as a person and if you have values that you stick to then you are way on your way to becoming successful with women. Also having good values allows you to make quick decisions in life which is very attractive to women. 1. Approach Anxiety – Quick Definition: AA is the fear that arises when doing a cold approach on a woman or group of women (or group of strangers, including men). This is one of the most talked about aspects when i…

Quick Definition: This term has 2 separate definitions: @Female: The moment at which a woman’s demeanor and body language suddenly become more receptive to a pickup artist‘s advances. The result of an attraction switch “clicking” in her mind. @Male: The moment the artist clicks and gets into “seducer” state. He is no longer thinking about his ego or himself, but is totally immersed in the experience. Full Def…

…side i’m on at the start is the same as at the end wither win or lose but he really turned me around“ Usage: You didn’t have enough frame control over the whole group of 5 girls to hold the set for more than 10 minutes. Related Terms: Frame, DHV, Cat String Theory, Conversational Jiujitsu, Frame, Meta Frame, Meta Game, Push Pull, Cocky & Funny, Situational Confidence, Core Confidence, Inner Game…

Quick Definition: The natural barriers that a person’s ego sets up in order to prevent him or her from embracing change, clinging onto old beliefs and thought patterns because the ego is afraid of the consequences of success. Full Definition: Success barriers exist because the ego is afraid of change, and it is actually a safety mechanism that is in place to retain what is comfortable now and “working enough” so that you can p…

Quick Definition: A way of delivering information about yourself that makes other people’s minds piece together little bits of information about you and come to a conclusion that originates from their own minds. Full Definition: People rarely reject their own ideas. This is why lawyers ask leading questions, and people are more receptive to answering questions rather than replying to another statement, that may not be in alignment with th…

Quick Definition: The ability for a person to understand oneself, and realize that happiness is the default state, while having a realistic view of one’s strengths and weaknesses. Full Definition: In clinical psychology, self-acceptance is considered the prerequisite for change to occur. It can be achieved by stopping negative comments of one’s self, and then accepting them to be part of you. That is, tolerating oneself to be imperf…

Quick Definition: The points of escalation during a seduction where the artist has the tendency to flinch a little and lose the set. Full Definition: Flinch points are the key moments within a set that can either go really well or really badly. They are the pop quizzes that come up during seduction. Flinch points can happen on moves, getting phone numbers, bouncing, phone game, and even when saying goodbye. The artist gives away his feelings in…

…0s was the blue suit with the tie. If an engineer wanted to dress in flip flops and jeans, he may not be taken seriously in meetings or, worse yet, be asked to re-dress himself or leave the company. If an older man goes to an 18+ goth club dressed in a cardigan sweater, he may be implicitly breaking the social norms. Interestingly, popular kids in high school and tribal leaders and those in power have higher bandwidth to set, establish, and bend…

…negatively (Format: DVDs) Product Name Beyond Words: The Art of Body Language and Physical Escalation Author 5.0 (Five Point Zero), Cajun, Keychain, Mr. M, Vercetti Company Affiliation Love Systems Release Date June 10, 2010 Skill Level Beginner Rating Product and content quality – 22/25 Innovation of material – 22/25 Application in field/bed – 24/25 Value for money – 21/25 Total Score 89/100 (B+)/100 (based on 1 review) Price $49…

alphawolf Good point kaide73 IMHO also Beginner’s Hell belongs to related term of this term called Breaking Point. alphawolf Nice find Kaide! kaide73 Check this out:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Made_%28TV_series%29

“Season 3. Episode 1. Episeode Summary: Tony is made into a ladies man. Coach: David Wygant”

And there are other teens wanting to become la…

…cause I’ve been that chode. Get your inner game sorted. I recommend the work of Eckhart Tolle. So with no further ado, gents, here we go. I hope you’re sitting comfortably. THE BEST CHAT UP LINE I EVER HEARD About 18 months ago I was in the smoking area of a pub on Edinburgh’s Royal Mile. It’s very picturesque. There’s a castle and everything. Anyway, this time I’m out with just ONE girl. She’s a good fri…