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  • How to Transition to Natural Game

    …conscious control over which techniques we use. On the flipside, techniques are the least effective part of who you are and quite useless without the deeper levels mindsets and beliefs. At the very deepest level, we have our beliefs. Beliefs determine your reality, and are shaped by your identity. Unlike techniques, we have very little conscious control over our beliefs. They are so far below the surface of our awareness that it is nearly…

    Limiting Belief

    …ll never have the ability to achieve goals beyond it. Your mind becomes your prison. If you have a belief that is unrealistic, you may have a chance to achieve it, or achieve some resemblance of it. Thus, if one has limiting beliefs, one will never achieve his/her goals, whereas, if one has beliefs that may seem unreasonable, the possibility to achieve it still exists. Usage: I used to have the limiting belief that I was no good with women, but…

    The Belief System of a Successful Man

    …in dating and attracting women? The way we perceive our interactions with women, is majorly determined by our belief system. In fact, if you ask men who are successful with women, you will find out that they have very common beliefs about life. And those beliefs are usually different from most of the average men. If previously, pick up artists and dating advisors were concentrated on technicalities – what to say, how to behave, etc. – today the…

    A Secret I Learned From a Frog

    …to feeling compelled to kiss him. He can mutate a churning stomach into a belly fully of attraction. “But how?” you might be thinking. There are some deep psychological reasons… Most people are lumbered with weak and pliable beliefs. More often than not, when two people are interacting, the person with the weaker belief system takes on the beliefs of the person with the stronger. What this means for you is that… If a woman starts off believing…

    Affirmation

    …nique taken from the fields of self-help and pop psychology. The basic idea behind Affirmation is that our thoughts shape our identity and the way we perceive the world. Thus, if we hold negative thoughts and repeat negative beliefs to ourselves, we become negative people, whereas if we have positive thoughts, the opposite is true. A basic Affirmation is a positive belief about oneself. A PUA will repeat the Affirmation to himself over and over…

    Inner Game

    …p solid inner game. Developing strong inner game will help one to overcome congruence tests, shit tests, and other obstacles one comes across in the field. No matter how hard one tries to hide one’s faults and negative beliefs, they will always express themselves somehow through unconscious subcommunication that a woman will pick up on. Thus, overcoming one’s insecurities and negative thought patterns is ultimately the best way to…

    Christian PUA

    …a new branch of pick up that teaches guys how to be true to themselves, good people, and still have the skills to go up to girls and conquer their fears. A Christian PUA generally dates other Christian girls, because of his beliefs that sex should be saved for after marriage. Although not always, other girls outside of the church can also be gamed as long as they share similar beliefs. The idea of success with women is simply having options,…


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