…what type of person (lady) you are. If I approach you with respect and you act an ass, then that is indeed who you are! I refuse to anyone else’s attitude/issues change the person I am. I may give her 3 strikes or maybe even 1 depending on my mood.
So look at it that way. Allow ladies to play their position and show you what type of people they are. Jason Thats not cool secret. No need to be a douche. Mothman, you’ll know you have passed the t…

Quick Definition: A test or gambit a woman or PUA can throw out to test for congruency between a target’s external representation of themselves and their real inner frame. Full Definition: Congruence tests are generally thrown out by women, as it is important for them to realize if they are sleeping with an alpha male or a beta male posing as an alpha male. Biologically, this distinction in sexual selection can affect her gene pool for th…

Quick Definition: An in-field test of a PUA’s or rAFC’s pickup skills. Alternatively, to test out a new technique or routine in the real world. Full Definition: Field tests are structured tests used to gauge the skill level of a PUA. Field tests often involve specific assignments, such as getting an n-close or a k-close. Field tests are often implemented by instructors and PU companies to test the skill level of potential instructors….

…ants. Examples of ‘Shit Tests’ A lot of the time when a girl is throwing out these tests is because she’s had a lot of guys hit on her that day/night/week/month/year/lifetime and has had enough of wasting her time on giving 10 minutes to everyone of the 95% of guys who haven’t got a chance. Imagine you had 20 fat chicks a day coming up and hitting on you, you’ll be nice to the first 2 or 3, then you’d probably start asking abrupt questions to f…

Quick Definition: When delivered by a woman, a compliance test is a small request or series of requests that a woman will make to shift the power dynamic of an interaction in her favor. When delivered by a PUA, a test to see the target’s current compliance level to him. Full Definition: A compliance test (CT) can be a form of shit test that women use, often subconsciously, to test the alpha characteristics of a man, and occasionally to ta…

Quick Definition: A request for compliance that requires a level of trust from the target. Full Definition: A trust test is a technique to get feedback within a particular social interaction with a girl. This is different than a compliance test because it requires a higher level of trust. Compliance can be nonverbal, such as laying a hand on the girl’s shoulder. A trust test requires some strong non-verbal or verbal indication. “Clo…

Quick Definition: A test used by less experienced PUAs to calibrate their kino. Full Definition: The gay test is the name for a simple mental exercise developed by Gambler of PUA Training, used by pick up artists to gauge the level of their kino. The idea behind the gay test is that, when a PUA is kinoing a girl, he asks himself, “would I feel gay if I was doing this to a man?” If the answer is yes, then their kino is bordering on…

Quick Definition: A physical action that is intended to test the compliance level of the girl for increasing kino escalation. Full Definition: A kino test is a specific kino escalation step that gives the PUA information about how the girl will respond to a physical compliance request. Essentially, the first kino that encourages reciprocal kino is a kino test. Tests can also occur over time, with kino pinging and seeing how the girl will resp…

…8217;s Alex to the left with executive instructor Todd My friend: “Hey Alex. Yeah we haven’t ate all day and am waiting for food. We’ll be in there as soon as possible” Alex: “Sure. There’s 10 other people who are MIA, and I am about to start. I want to make sure everyone who can be there will be there. By the way, this pink beast mode shirt that I am wearing to support my friend (Jeffy) makes me look so gay! I…

…simply does it right. I’ve outlined them here in seven self interested reasons to keep it simple with women and not undervalue it’s significance amongst the hype. #7  Simplicity = Results = Confidence Fast Seduce In Second’s 18,000 infield tests over the past 6 years have consistently shown that your confidence will suffer if you learn techniques without ever formulating your own solutions. Your confidence is impaired from how you learn, not jus…

…ast Seduction.com and our friends and contacts. If you know of a lair that is not listed, please contact us and we will add it! Thanks to Cliff, Thundercat, and Nightlife for compiling the list on which this is based. Version 1.1 Last Updated: 12.30.2012 by AlphaWolf (Vince Lin) Running a PUA Group IF and ONLY IF you are running a lair, join this group to let other lairs know what you are doing. If you are starting a lair we suggest waiting unti…

…eneath the surface. If it was acceptable I believe people everywhere would be having care-free sex with multiple partners all the time. This tension is so dangerous it often leads to complete strangers having sex in less than 10 minutes. This tension is why some men feel the need to cover women head to toe in burkas. It’s also why women know it’s dangerous to put themselves in a situation where they are alone with you. Do Less, Not Mo…

Quick Definition: Purposely appearing unsure or unconfident about a subject in order to lure a woman to shit test a subject that one is actually strong in. Full Definition: Sandbagging in pickup is similar to the term in poker, where a player will purposely bet passively on a strong hand in order to draw other players to act aggressively. In pickup, one attempts to lure the woman into testing the very areas that one is strong in. An example of…

Quick Definition: The process of laying the “hottest” (or perceived to be “highest value”) girl, and then going down the list on slutty social trees, or going for the queen bee in non-slutty social groups. Full Definition: This is an advanced term in the social circle game space. Once you set an anchor into a social circle or develop your own social circle, there is usually a threshold for attraction between the sexes. If your socia…

Guest post by Anders Tryka Hi guys Anders Tryka here,Casual has been following my blog Powerful Connections for some time and suggested that I write a guest post or two for PUA Lingo and since a lot of my blog and e-book readers have been asking me for some of my more stealthy KINO stuff I thought I might as well just go on ahead and write about it here. Maybe you have been in the same situation as many of the guys that I have coached along the…

Bernie lmaof 1:57 to 2:04 alphawolf @ Bernie, Yeah I was laughing my A** off….

Quick Definition: The degree of one’s authenticity; the similarity and general state of agreement between one’s internal state and external self. Full Definition: RSD defines game as “the external representation of your internal frame.” To this point, game is about congruency. In the beginning, an aspiring PUA must step out of his comfort zone to achieve new comfort thresholds because what has felt comfortable in the pas…

Quick Definition: A sign or signal from an HB that conveys disinterest. Full Definition: IODs are subtle, and sometimes not-so-subtle, signals that a woman is not interested in having any sort of interaction with the PUA. IODs can be verbal, such a woman telling a PUA “that’s not funny” or “I have a boyfriend”; or they can be physical, like avoiding eye contact and evasive body language. Non-verbal IODs tend to be…

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Quick Definition: Usually a reference to a female giving a guy a hard time, usually in jest, although sometimes in a mean-spirited way. Full Definition: Similar to the shit test, ball busting refers to girls making fun of guys, sometimes for no apparent reason. Unlike the shit test, it is not a conditioned response to see if the guy is man enough. Ball busting can occur between friends who take playful jabs at each other. It is important to r…

Quick Definition: The area of game that deals with one’s personal development, inner beliefs, core values, and life goals. Full Definition: Inner game is the core of pickup. While learning techniques can help convey the characteristics of a man who has strong inner game, to remain train truly congruent as a pickup artist, one must develop solid inner game. Developing strong inner game will help one to overcome congruence tests, shit te…

Hi guys,Anders Tryka from Powerful Connections here,One of the questions that I hear most from guys wanting to improve their game is “what are your coolest tips on calibrating your approach to a set BEFORE you make contact, so you can get to the hook-point faster?” The shortest answer to that question is: I don’t. As in, I don’t really believe in the hook-point as an important concept in my game. I know from my 10+ years of experience with the P…

It’s that time of year again! Every year at PUA Lingo we like to reflect back and see who the top Pick Up Artists of the year were (see our list of Top 10 PUAs for 2010). However, we’ve noticed that the same guys end up on these lists every year, guys like Style, Mystery, Sinn, and AFC Adam. A lot of these guys deserve it, to be sure, but a lot of them also end up getting voted for because they’re big names, even if they haven&…

Quick Definition: A strong physiological and psychological urge to engage in sexual activities. Full Definition:        An HD is a high desire to have sex. It can refer to a long-term internal state of the person being naturally highly sex driven, or the particular mood that a person is in at the moment. Dale Carnegie writes in How to Influence People and Win Friends that the two most important things in life for most people are 1. “Sex…