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  • Anti-Slut Defense

    Guest post by RedpoleQ Anti-Slut Defense is any action a girl takes to shut down sexual escalation, often suddenly and quite opposite to her previous behavior. Often by breaking a sexual mood through sudden, often irrational, inexplicable verbal or non-verbal non-compliance.It tends to strikes just when you think everything is lined up and the full-close is inevitable. Why does it exist? It boils down to the Madonna/Whore dichotomy. Madonna(not…

    Slut Shaming

    Quick Definition: The tendency of the larger society to make a woman or women in general feel guilty about having sex, or a perceive “larger” number of sexual partners. The so-called “double-standard”. Full Definition: The word and meaning of “slut” and “whore” are used by men and women alike to attack their enemies as a way of shaming them publicly. Because the larger American society is still,…

    Anti-Slut Defense (ASD)

    Quick Definition: Women’s internal mechanism to create plausible deniability before sex with a new man. It ensures that she doesn’t appear (to herself and others) that she’s too easily seduced. Full Definition: ASD is a conscious or unconscious process that women, especially younger women, go through to avoid the perception of being “slutty” or “too easy.” Women will often go out of their way to portray themselves as “nice girls,” even going so…

    Beta Male Shaming

    Quick Definition: The tendency of women (and sometimes men) to shame a provider-type or beta male if he steps too far from the confines of his more provider-type flirting style. Full Definition: Women hold the provider male / beta male to a different standard of conduct, sometimes subconsciously, for their own genetic reasons. They need these guys to be able to provide for them and therefore cannot reveal her true sexual nature for fear of…

    What makes the HB blurt out ‘I have a BF’

    author: “Tyler Durden” date: Fri, 04 July 2003 13:23 GMT website: www.fastseduction.com old forum Context: this was a really old post, keep in mind sometimes the girl indeed has a loving BF. Other times, if you are getting this excuse a lot, you’re doing something to trigger it. TD Explains: The word ‘Slut’ is a weapon that women use against other women Women have a powerful interruption mechanism known as…

    Secret Society

    Quick Definition: A romantization of the very real behavior of how women truly have and manage sex in regards to society, and how select men are part of the secret community. I.e. Being okay and at peace with hot girls wanting and desiring sex, as all humans have fun and have sex with each other. Full Definition: Tyler explains further about how to view the world as is, and see your competition as a healthy natural part of life: There is no…

    Social Conditioning by Gunwitch

    Author: Gunwitch Context: Gunwitch breaks down the 9 social narratives we’ve been “conditioned” to believe and why it is ok to question these commonly-held notions. In this excerpt from his Dynamic Sex Life e-book, Gun describes common social conditionings that impair pick-up. This is a very important post for Inner Game. I just got you realizing how these things you might be conditioned with are negatively impacting your sex…


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