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Anti-Slut Defense

…had any sex before me. We did eventually but it did take a long time. Do you sometimes just have to accept that it’s not gonna happen straight away? RedpoleQ Yeah, when I say more comfort, more qualification that could mean a 10minutes, or it could mean 10hours.

For most girls 4-5 hours on a Day2 is enough for me, while there have been a few where the full close took over 7 hours. Recently it took untila Day5 with one woman.

And I was even wit…

Slut Shaming

Quick Definition: The tendency of the larger society to make a woman or women in general feel guilty about having sex, or a perceive “larger” number of sexual partners. The so-called “double-standard”. Full Definition: The word and meaning of “slut” and “whore” are used by men and women alike to attack their enemies as a way of shaming them publicly. Because the larger American society is still, a…

Anti-Slut Defense (ASD)

Quick Definition: Women’s internal mechanism to create plausible deniability before sex with a new man. It ensures that she doesn’t appear (to herself and others) that she’s too easily seduced. Full Definition: ASD is a conscious or unconscious process that women, especially younger women, go through to avoid the perception of being “slutty” or “too easy.” Women will often go out of their way to portray themselves as “nice girls,” even going so…

Secret Society

…ng in a semi-satirical tone – I haven’t gone off the deepend….. yet… :) A secret society exists. Around 52% of people on this earth are a part of it. Of that 52%, 50% are women, 2% are men. Of that 2%, 1% of those men are gay, the other 1% are players. What I’m talking about is the sex secret society – and you are either *IN* or *OUT*. SOME RULES OF THE SECRET SOCIETY: 1) Don’t talk about the secret socie…

Last Minute Resistance (LMR)

…ore than a handful of occasions:- my standard response is to offer support and reassurance without any show of dissapointment, then change the subject completely off the topic. This has never failed, ever, for within isually 10-15min its on again, instigated by her. This is not rape, even though there was a clear no. Cydien Rake Mattoro

You’ve seen what I’ve posted and know my stance on force. So consider that when reading my response.

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Domino Effect

Quick Definition: The process of laying the “hottest” (or perceived to be “highest value”) girl, and then going down the list on slutty social trees, or going for the queen bee in non-slutty social groups. Full Definition: This is an advanced term in the social circle game space. Once you set an anchor into a social circle or develop your own social circle, there is usually a threshold for attraction between the sexes. If your socia…

Female Pick Up Artist (FPUA)

…stand this.

Regarding FPUA’s, the proof is in the pudding. It’d be great to go find women that are 4-7 in looks and consider themselves FPUA’s. If they can pull men/women that the majority of women would consider 9’s and 10’s, then there is something to FPUA’s. An easier way to gather data would be looking at the success rate of Kesia’s female students. Let’s set the bar at 25% for comparison’s sake. If they pass, FPUA tactics might be ef…

Sense of Urgency

…to my place so I can show you those DVDs we were talking about” Addressing potential cockblocks: “your friends want to make sure you arrive home safely, so walk with me” “We can just cuddle, keep it PG 13″ (If she agrees, 99% of the time ends up in sex – based on my own field reports) Julien explains how to have that sense of urgency to pull girls on the same night: Usage: She needs to feel a sense of urgenc…

Floozy

Quick Definition: A woman who enjoys giving men sexual pleasure and can’t get enough of sex. Full Definition: A floozy is another way of saying “slut” without the edge. Floozy sounds a bit funny and less mean, although its meaning is the same as “slut” or “whore.” The word sounds like a “doozy,” as if the girl is accidentally sexually active, and it can’t always be her fault. Floozy al…

Mastering Sex Game

“The biggest demonstration of higher value in relationship is good sex.” With this one quote, Dan Rose caught my undivided attention. At this point in the game, you are likely having some success at talking to girls and getting their numbers. After a date, it is time to turn on your sex game. Unfortunately, a large majority of guys are still bad in mediocre in bed. This is because most are unwilling to admit that this is an area the…

Sexual Discretion

AKA Discretion Quick Definition: The sensibility and responsibility of a true artist to not brag about his sexual conquests. Full Definition: True players and seducers often practice discretion when asked about the details of their experiences with specific targets. As Zan would say, “I would never betray a woman’s trust me in by divulging the details of our relationship. That is between me and her.” Given the secret society…

Sex God Method (SGM)

Review of the E-book Sex God Method from Daniel Rose. (E-Book Download) Product Name Sex God Method Author Daniel Rose Company Affiliation Sex God Method Release Date 2006 Skill Level Advanced, Sexual Technique Rating Product and content quality – 24/25 Innovation of material – 24/25 Application in field/bed – 25/25 Value for money – 25/25 Total Score 98/100 (A+)/100 (based on 1 review) Price $37.00 Format Ebook Reviewed By Vince…

Token Resistance

Quick Definition: Resistance that a woman puts up to sexual escalation. Full Definition: Token resistance is different than LMR, in that it is not a genuine disinterest in the woman’s part to not participate in sex. Due to conscious or unconscious behavior, the woman offers up token resistance to dilute the “slut” issue. She does this because of how the actions make her think about herself, how her friends might think about h…

Position of Power

Quick Definition: The influence, decisions, and considerations one finds himself facing when he has considerable power within a social situation. Full Definition: Managers, the owner of the strip club, the host of the house party—these are all people in positions of power. When one experiences this phenomenon, it is important to understand the natural dynamics that come with such power. Situational and temporary power Some people have temporary…

Purd

Quick Definition: The opposite of Prudes; teenage girls that are more open to sexual exploration. Full Definition: According to Teen-Game.com: Half of all teenage girls. These girls are more liberal in their behavior than Prudes. They often show some skin and hook up with more guys (since many guys are good at building attraction – Naturals), so they get the name slut, etc. In reality, they are just on one side of the Prude/Purd Spectrum….

Bullshit Baffles Brains

Quick Definition: “BBB” originally invented by Mystery as a way of describing the verbal distraction that fills the void of silence when the target reaches a certain decision point, or to smooth out the critical decision points to comfortably influence an easy decision to an otherwise indecisive girl. Full Definition: BBB is another way of saying that once a girl has unconsciously decided to kiss you, bounce,  leave with you, or o…

Textback humour

AKA Callback humour Quick Definition: A reference in a text that is from a previous (usually face to face) interaction. Full Definition: If you follow a hot girlfriend around or imagine yourself in the shoes of a hot girl in her 20s, on a day-to-day basis, a guy might start to see how many offers she gets for sex, everyday. It is not uncommon for her to give her phone number out, and not return texts or calls. Numbers obtained during night ti…

Apocalypse Opener

…cause I’ve been that chode. Get your inner game sorted. I recommend the work of Eckhart Tolle. So with no further ado, gents, here we go. I hope you’re sitting comfortably. THE BEST CHAT UP LINE I EVER HEARD About 18 months ago I was in the smoking area of a pub on Edinburgh’s Royal Mile. It’s very picturesque. There’s a castle and everything. Anyway, this time I’m out with just ONE girl. She’s a good fri…

Leading

Quick Definition: The act of taking command of a situation, and leading men (and women) into specific actions or scenarios. Full Definition: Leading is very important in pickup, and it applies to other areas of life as well. The traits of a good leader can inspire groups and others to take up a cause in your name, or in the name of a greater good. In seduction, despite mainstream media changes over the last decade, women still want men to lead….

Social Trees

Quick Definition: The connection of branches that encompasses a social circle . Full Definition: The social tree concept is developed by Braddock of Love Systems . Each social circle is a tree. In the tree hierarchy, there are the women/men in the higher branches, and others in the lower branches. In every social circle , the leader’s inner circle of the tree needs to accept new members in order for you to become a permanent memb…

Pre Lay Relaxation Mode (PLRM)

Quick Definition: The confident and relaxed vibe that a PUA projects while leading a girl to a sex location. Full Definition: PLRM refers to the calm, nonchalant state that the PUA tries to create while taking a girl to a sex location. During this point in the pickup, it is implicitly understood by both parties that sex is going to happen, so the PUA basically just needs to not f*** things up. During PLRM, there are two things the PUA needs to…

Travel Pick Up (TPU)

Quick Definition: A pickup that occurs while traveling abroad, usually in a different city or country. Full Definition: The phrase “travel pick up” is fairly new, but the idea of picking up women while traveling is a very old one. Many PUAs find seducing women while traveling abroad to be easier than at home, and there are a number of factors that contribute to this. One of the reasons that picking up women while traveling is eas…

Dance Game

AKA dance floor game Quick Definition: The area of game that deals with engaging (opening, conversing, pulling) girls on dance floors. Full Definition: Good dance game gives a PUA a huge advantage in night club and other dance-related social gatherings, such as salsa dancing or ballroom dancing. Essentially, women love to dance, and good dance moves exhibit many subtle DHVs, including foreshadowing the PUA’s persona and skills in the bed…

Mystery (Erik Von Markovik)

Born in Canada in 1971 as Erik James Horvat-Markovic, Mystery was a major contributor to the seduction community since its inception on the ASF forums as seducers began exchanging ideas online. In the book The Game, he took on author Neil Strauss under his wing and brought him under his tutelage. Prior to becoming a PUA, Mystery was a magician and used the same stage name for his magic shows. His first girlfriend was his assistant from a kidR…

7 Hour Rule

Quick Definition: A rule of thumb for the average amount time it takes to build the comfort necessary for sex. Full Definition: The 7 Hour Rule is a term coined by Mystery to describe the average amount of time that most PUAs spend with a woman before having sex with her. The 7 Hour Rule comes from Mystery’s reflection on his own pickups, as well as from comparing notes with other pick up artists. What he found was that it usually took 4-…


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