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  • Anti-Slut Defense

    Guest post by RedpoleQ Anti-Slut Defense is any action a girl takes to shut down sexual escalation, often suddenly and quite opposite to her previous behavior. Often by breaking a sexual mood through sudden, often irrational, inexplicable verbal or non-verbal non-compliance.It tends to strikes just when you think everything is lined up and the full-close is inevitable. Why does it exist? It boils down to the Madonna/Whore dichotomy. Madonna(not…

    Slut Shaming

    …of its founders, society at large still perceives a woman who publicly is known for sleeping around as shameful. Slut shaming doesn’t even have to be true – a girl who calls another girl a slut, just by doing so, an incur questions and feelings of lower worth with the girl she’s slut shaming and the larger social group. The show Sex And the City features Samantha, who is a secret hereon to many women because of her liberal relat…

    Anti-Slut Defense (ASD)

    Quick Definition: Women’s internal mechanism to create plausible deniability before sex with a new man. It ensures that she doesn’t appear (to herself and others) that she’s too easily seduced. Full Definition: ASD is a conscious or unconscious process that women, especially younger women, go through to avoid the perception of being “slutty” or “too easy.” Women will often go out of their way to portray themselves as “nice girls,” even going so…

    Secret Society

    …220;It doesn’t count”. 9) Nobody judges eachother in the secret society. There is no such thing as a slut. A slut is only as slutty as people who are NOT in the secret society are aware of. 10) Secret society members COME FIRST. If someone in the society is not having fun with an interaction, it is cut off. Conversely, if a secret society male is with a non-secret-society male, and a secret society female (all females) decides she wan…

    Beta Male Shaming

    …en talks about the lover vs. provider frame and beta-male shaming Beta male shaming also has its counter-part, Slut Shaming, and in many ways slut shaming is a lot more severe and has negative social consequences of greater significant than beta-male shaming. After all, a beta male can always progress into an alpha, but once a girl is slut shamed, it can last for her whole life. Being able to pierce the social veil allows the alpha to see the t…

    Mastering Sex Game

    “The biggest demonstration of higher value in relationship is good sex.” With this one quote, Dan Rose caught my undivided attention. At this point in the game, you are likely having some success at talking to girls and getting their numbers. After a date, it is time to turn on your sex game. Unfortunately, a large majority of guys are still bad in mediocre in bed. This is because most are unwilling to admit that this is an area the…

    Sex God Method (SGM)

    Review of the E-book Sex God Method from Daniel Rose. (E-Book Download) Product Name Sex God Method Author Daniel Rose Company Affiliation Sex God Method Release Date 2006 Skill Level Advanced, Sexual Technique Rating Product and content quality – 24/25 Innovation of material – 24/25 Application in field/bed – 25/25 Value for money – 25/25 Total Score 98/100 (A+)/100 (based on 1 review) Price $37.00 Format Ebook Reviewed By Vince…

    Last Minute Resistance (LMR)

    Quick Definition: The resistance that a woman puts up to physical advances before sex. LMR is different than ASD in that it is a natural, biological feeling. She can’t always consciously control LMR. Full Definition: LMR is an acronym for Last Minute Resistance. This term describes the feelings a woman goes through once she is in a seduction location and resists a man’s attempts at physical escalation. This is often considered to be part…

    Token Resistance

    Quick Definition: Resistance that a woman puts up to sexual escalation. Full Definition: Token resistance is different than LMR, in that it is not a genuine disinterest in the woman’s part to not participate in sex. Due to conscious or unconscious behavior, the woman offers up token resistance to dilute the “slut” issue. She does this because of how the actions make her think about herself, how her friends might think about h…

    Double Standard

    Quick Definition:  Refers to the different punishments and rewards that a society dishes out to men and women for the same behavior patterns, usually related to a sexual topic. Full Definition: Women are judged differently than men, and society has certain rules in place in order to maintain balance and stability. Its rules are not always neutral to human nature. As we know, women like sex too, but they are required via social pressure to be mo…

    Social Ladder Structure

    Quick Definition:  The building blocks of the “social ladder” in each society and its unwritten but generally understood social rules. Full Definition: In America and most of the world, there is a specific double standard built into the social ladder structure. Mobility across and up the ladder is possible, but certain rules needs to be obeyed in order to do so. For example, class structures are still in place. A rich tycoon is unli…

    7 Hour Rule

    Quick Definition: A rule of thumb for the average amount time it takes to build the comfort necessary for sex. Full Definition: The 7 Hour Rule is a term coined by Mystery to describe the average amount of time that most PUAs spend with a woman before having sex with her. The 7 Hour Rule comes from Mystery’s reflection on his own pickups, as well as from comparing notes with other pick up artists. What he found was that it usually took 4-…

    Pre Lay Relaxation Mode (PLRM)

    Quick Definition: The confident and relaxed vibe that a PUA projects while leading a girl to a sex location. Full Definition: PLRM refers to the calm, nonchalant state that the PUA tries to create while taking a girl to a sex location. During this point in the pickup, it is implicitly understood by both parties that sex is going to happen, so the PUA basically just needs to not f*** things up. During PLRM, there are two things the PUA needs to…

    The New Artist Guide

    Welcome to PUA Lingo’s New Artist Guide Skip to Q&A Section *Before you get started in learning game, download the PUA Dictionary and never be lost when reading pickup material: The purpose of the the New Artist Guide is to assist you accelerate your learning on becoming the man/artist you wish to be. I use the term “artist” because each person has their own core persona, and I believe each person has a hidden “gu…

    Anti-PUA

    Quick Definition:  Refers to the groups of people who are actively against the PUA community. Full Definition: An anti-movement from feminists, or guys who felt cheated from charlatans in the seduction community. PUA-Hate and PUA Watchdog are examples of these groups. Also, a growing number of feminist bloggers post about male PUAs like Roosh. Some speculate that the feminist bloggers are just doing this for publicity and links, although many g…

    Dance Game

    AKA dance floor game Quick Definition: The area of game that deals with engaging (opening, conversing, pulling) girls on dance floors. Full Definition: Good dance game gives a PUA a huge advantage in night club and other dance-related social gatherings, such as salsa dancing or ballroom dancing. Essentially, women love to dance, and good dance moves exhibit many subtle DHVs, including foreshadowing the PUA’s persona and skills in the bed…

    Travel Pick Up (TPU)

    Quick Definition: A pickup that occurs while traveling abroad, usually in a different city or country. Full Definition: The phrase “travel pick up” is fairly new, but the idea of picking up women while traveling is a very old one. Many PUAs find seducing women while traveling abroad to be easier than at home, and there are a number of factors that contribute to this. One of the reasons that picking up women while traveling is eas…

    Seeding the Pull

    Quick Definition:  Preemptively talking about your apartment or a location that is conducive to sex, way before you try to bounce the girl there. Full Definition: For any type of “pull” game, or even if you are on a date, seeding the pull is a key component of good game. In any great story, the narrative usually foreshadows or mentions an event before it actually happens. For example, you talk about the True Blood episodes you have…

    Textback humour

    AKA Callback humour Quick Definition: A reference in a text that is from a previous (usually face to face) interaction. Full Definition: If you follow a hot girlfriend around or imagine yourself in the shoes of a hot girl in her 20s, on a day-to-day basis, a guy might start to see how many offers she gets for sex, everyday. It is not uncommon for her to give her phone number out, and not return texts or calls. Numbers obtained during night ti…


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