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  • Warm Alpha

    …when it’s suitable/expected. The reason why people behave coldly is because they refuse to give away value, feeling that they should be the ones receiving all the attention and value. Let us call the opposite to alpha behavior beta behavior. Now that we have a distinction between cold and warm behavior, we have four different extremes: Cold beta: loser type guys with no success that dislike pretty much everybody that doesn’t share…

    The Warm Alpha

    …when it’s suitable/expected. The reason why people behave coldly is because they refuse to give away value, feeling that they should be the ones receiving all the attention and value. Let us call the opposite to alpha behavior beta behavior. Now that we have a distinction between cold and warm behavior, we have four different extremes: Cold beta: loser type guys with no success that dislike pretty much everybody that doesn’t share…

    The Belief System of a Successful Man

    …g at something else? Or if a girl stops you on the street to ask for some directions – could it be that she’s trying to hit on you? Men lose plenty of opportunities due to our negative interpretation of a woman’s behavior. Here is just an example how this belief changes your behavior (First phone call to a girl): You call a girl -> She doesn’t answer -> “She is probably not interested” -> You delete her…

    Approval Seeking

    …ng too much of it communicates that the individual is insecure and needs the approval of others for validation. Approval Seeking often manifests itself as bragging or qualifying in attempt to impress a target; changing one’s behavior in an attempt to “please” a woman; or any other form of outcome dependent behavior that looks to others for approval. Not only is Approval Seeking very unattractive to others, it can be devastating for your inner…

    Mode One (Alan Roger Currie)

    …ront, unapologetic and straightforwardly honest Mode Two Behavior – An interpersonal communication style with women which is characterized as pleasant, polite, cautious and “beat-around-the-bush” Mode Three Behavior – An interpersonal communication style with women which is characterized as phony, cowardly, deceptive and fawning Mode Four Behavior – An interpersonal communication style with women which is…

    The New Artist Guide

    …red this way. In a way, we all backward rationalize our sexual choices back to logic, but the truth is that attraction is not logical. What people “would like to be”, and the “biological drive” of our behavior patterns. Paradigm Shift #4: Its not a trick. This stuff takes work You will need to practice your will-power, push yourself everyday. Everyone that started out in this, came from some sort of heartbreak,…

    What Inner Game actually is?

    …his owner shit, just making sure he is still congruent. Children will test you in the same way. Every couple of days, or even hours, they will challenge you to see if the rules have weakened or changed. You can observe this behavior everywhere in nature. Now, let’s get back to charismatic people. It’s funny, but the more rules charismatic people have, and the more they punish those who break their rules, the more charismatic they…


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