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  • Polarity / Sexual Polarity

    …e, and pheromones, among other things. High levels of estrogen produce full lips, coke bottle bodies, and a feminine voice. Aside from hormones and genetics, artists can manipulate clothing and lifestyle to heighten or lower polarity. For example, a PUA can get tattoos, piercings, and leather jackets to increase masculine polarity. Women use makeup, long hair, high heels, and fabric layers to heighten feminine energy when they go out. Creating…

    Button Pushing

    …ly creates a strong temporary attraction, but will quickly fade over time. Without inner congruence and a strong identity, PUAs and social robots often reframe back to Button Pushing game. Tyler Durden talks about how to use polarity and create “depth” Usage: You’re button pushing her attraction for you, but all this seems so temporary and artificial. Related Terms: Structured Game, Routine Stacking, Kino Escalation, Bullshit Escalation,…

    Paradoxical Realities

    …the end of his session, notes that at the end of the day, you must go out and field test what works for you. Only by gathering primary research will an artist find out what style is right for him, and the truths that are his own in this world. Usage: There are many paradoxical realities on your journey to learn game. Related Terms: Congruence, Identity, Resistance, Polarity, Core Confidence, Situational Confidence, Blueprint…

    Role Reversal

    …220;I don’t usually do this, but since you are so charming…” PUA: “I don’t have sex on the first date, just so you know. I am only promising good conversation tonight.” PUA: “All right, fine. You can sleep over. But don’t get any ideas about easy sex. I am so not in that head space right now.” David Bowie, a master of role reversal Tyler Durden on Role Reversal and feminine vs. masculine…

    10 Sex Secrets Hot Girls Never Want You To Know

    …want the man man to control their bodies and dominate them. Not full force, but adapt to the girl’s threshold. A man is supposed to be more of a leader and dominant in bed. This increases the feminine – masculine polarity and makes sexual interactions stronger.   Sex Secret #3: Girls talk about penises when guys are not around Yes, size matters to some girls. Most of the time, penis talks is just fun girl-talk. Unless the guy is…

    How To Dress For To Attract 9s and 10s

    …antly get them attracted to you before you’ve even said a word. An example of a sexual stereotype is the athlete. Already, she imagining him being fit, strong and competitive, all masculine traits that attract feminine polarity. For a full list of sexual stereotypes and how to achieve them, take a look at our Sexual Avatars page.   How Do I Budget For Clothes? Like anything else you want to buy, you need a plan to budget and save for…


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