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  • Nice Guy

    Quick Definition: The typical AFC, who is very nice and polite to people, but oftentimes lacks a certain selfishness that conveys his own self worth and attractiveness. Full Definition: There are many types of nice guys—the orbiter who spends countless hours of his time listening to the problems of his very attractive female friends because they need someone to talk to about their bad boy boyfriend, the nice older guy who uses his money to take…

    Good Guy Game (GGG)

    …me unique in his approach. The community has criticized “GGG” as only working for tall, good looking guys. Despite this, its concept still applies for guys with more direct and genuine game.   Usage: I wonder if GGG only works for really good looking guys. Related Terms: Keys to the VIP, Badboy, Authenticity, Emotional Connection, Flow, Direct Game, Nice Guy Source: Chris from Keys to the VIP Related Links: Nice Guy Game R…

    Brad P’s Fashion Bible

    …- Elite- Access to resources. These are the qualities animals look for when choosing a mate.” A word about nice guys Nice Guys, Bad Memories Most women have had bad experiences with nice guys. It takes many forms. – The annoying guy buying drinks and pestering her. – A serious relationship where her boyfriend allowed her to walk all over him. – The stalker who sends flowers and gifts in an effort to show how well he could treat her. – An en…

    Who, What, Where?

    …nny (e.g., “lololol omg! ur crazy!!”). When that happens, you’ve successfully transitioned yourself from “random guy” to “funny, interesting guy.” And that’s PRECISELY when you push for the date. If you hesitate and keep sending texts, you’re going to transition from “funny, interesting guy” to “text goofball guy.” (Don’t be that guy, he’s celibate.) Again, I can’t stress enough how tenuous texting a girl who doesn’t remember you can be. You’re l…

    Before You Text Her…

    …l omg! ur crazy!!”). When that happens, you’ve successfully transitioned yourself from “random guy” to “funny, interesting guy.” And that’s PRECISELY when you push for the date. If you hesitate and keep sending texts, you’re going to transition from “funny, interesting guy” to “text goofball guy.” (Don’t be that guy, he’s celibate.) Again, I can’t stress eno…

    The New Artist Guide

    …he “big thing”. It is all mental. Unless you are exceptionally and abnormally small 1-2 inches, most guys have a size that is just perfect. Also, porn has created the myth of the biggest penis being the best, the truth is different sizes work for different women. Case in point: “This is socially weird and I am not a weird guy” Yep. We are all super weirdos. Attraction to Sex Models These are ways to think about the pro…

    Handling Shit Tests and Building Attraction

    …of ‘Shit Tests’   A lot of the time when a girl is throwing out these tests is because she’s had a lot of guys hit on her that day/night/week/month/year/lifetime and has had enough of wasting her time on giving 10 minutes to everyone of the 95% of guys who haven’t got a chance. Imagine you had 20 fat chicks a day coming up and hitting on you, you’ll be nice to the first 2 or 3, then you’d probably start asking abrupt questions to filter ou…

    Emotional Tampon

    AKA “social tampon” or “social circle tampon” Quick Definition: A guy (or sometimes a girl) who allows others to bleed their emotional problems all over him. Full Definition: An emotional tampon is a term used to describe guys that put up with listening to all the problems that a woman has, in the vain hope of eventually getting into her pants. It is a typical mistake that “nice guys” and AFCs make in their relatio…

    Female Gurus

    PUA Community presents… FEMAL E GURUS   For most of us guys, before we discovered the PUA Community, some of the worst advice we’ve received about picking up chicks have come from chicks. That’s one of the reasons why the PUA Community is composed of mainly guys. But this Community does have females. In the beginning they served mainly as wing girls or demo girls, like Tara who worked for Mystery. But gradually there’ve been more w…

    Social Exchange Propensity

    …on the scene, sometimes there are many locals and if you are the foreigner, you have to establish yourself as a nice, new guy. If you come across as the creepy weird new guy, all is lost. Frat / Sports Bars – lots of cuties here, but the guys are really big and conversation usually stalls. They are, however, rowdy and loud. If you fit into this category then you’ll do well here. However, usually, PUAs tend to be the more intellectual…

    Oneitis

    …efinition: Oneitis is the seduction community’s play on “itis” as a disease to refer to when a guy falls hard for a girl, to the point of obsessing over her. It is often characterized by the guy making statements such as “she’s the only one for me,” “she’s not like that,” and “she’s different from all the other girls.” A guy who has oneitis feels that he is in love with the g…

    Chit Chat Master

    Quick Definition: A guy who relies solely on conversation to pick up women, but is unable to sexualize or express interest with her. Full Definition: Chit chat masters are a common sight in the community. Often the result of hundreds and even thousands of approaches, a chit chat master is a guy who attempts to keep his conversations vague and, therefore, applicable to any woman in any situation. However, this results in a thoroughly un-engaging…

    Stealth Attraction + Master Pick Up Artist University

    …es a few times to capture all of the value he brings. Of particular interest is that Adam seems like a genuinely nice guy, who is trained extremely well in game. Dharam – the master of the “nice guy” persona, Dharam proves that you don’t need to be an asshole to be dominant or to get girls. His section was particularly useful on the concept of the warm alpha / warm beta and being in your natural state without forcing a cha…

    10 Sex Secrets Hot Girls Never Want You To Know

    Time to wake-up – this is real stuff I’m about to reveal that most guys don’t know. So here’s a picture of a funny dog for you to sober up When girls talk among themselves, or very rarely, with a trust straight guy, they’ll reveal these secrets. A lot of guys will cling to old beliefs and deny that these are real, or that “only sluts think this way”. This holds them back from their evolution, and from s…

    Secret Society

    …ove to go out and hook up. I hate it when girls try to run my life”.. HB: “Me too.. I hooked up with guys all last year.. My boyfriend tried to control me, but I do what I want.. My girlfriends all do it too.” PUA: “Really? Cause to be honest, I’ve always felt like I’m a romantic guy.. And girls always cheat on me.. I want to find a girl who won’t cheat.” HB: “I would never cheat. Guys are dog…

    2 Girls Teach Sex Review

    …et the most sex in the male population. One of the things they did really well was to find a good moderator. The guy (Bobby) below is likable, and he doesn’t come across as weird or overly alpha as many guy porn actors do in porn videos. This sets the mood for the girls to give real feedback and you can tell they have been well conditioned to make guys like them with their little mannerisms as pornstars. That being said, I was blown away b…

    Sex and Dating in the Big City, 24/7 Attractive Style

    …f game there were sixty women who told themselves, “hey, it can’t hurt to come out and see what this guy is about, right?” See, even with all these interesting things to do, without a guy or a friend to go out with, they’re pointless. Big City women would rather stay home and hang out with their core group of friends at their houses. Imagine if he actually had game, what could have happened to those sixty dates? Case Study…

    The Warm Alpha

    …at we have a distinction between cold and warm behavior, we have four different extremes: Cold beta: loser type guys with no success that dislike pretty much everybody that doesn’t share their misery. They come across as annoying guys with a lot of negative thinking. Warm beta: provider type guys that aspire to become as successful as the successful people around them. They come across as nice guys with a big heart, but not attractive. Col…

    Julian Fox

    …aining those women. Julian especially preaches to frustrated students who have often found themselves ‘the nice guy’ or ‘my best guy friend.’ The Julian Foxx Dating Academy helps guys break down the barrier of the friend zone and to become the one that the ladies desire. Julian offers a mini-course to his students that helps identify the factors that have been holding them back, the secret that will release them from rejec…

    Two-Part Kiss Opener

    …to give away but just can’t help myself for some reason), is designed to do several things. It appeals to guys first and foremost; women get super- into it also; and it provides a way to AMOG guys in front of women. So, without further ado (okay, maybe a little more ado), I humbly present for your consideration…The Two-Part Kiss Opener. PUA: Hey guys, we’re having a debate and need a quick opinion on something. If a guy is dati…

    Protection Shield

    …r to a less negative term for Bitch Shield. Mystery mentions it in the Venusian Arts as a shield she puts up for nice guys who failed to attract her. Full Definition: Have you ever had a date with a girl you found unattractive? Have you ever felt that no matter how cool or great she was, she was just not physically attractive to you? This happens the same way for women when the guy is socially not high value enough. If she doesn’t have init…

    Chick Politics

    …an.   Full Definition: Chick Politics are brutal. Truly attractive men are rare, and, when a truly quality guy comes their way, the darkest sides of women will show their faces, often resulting in backstabbing, deceitfulness, and lying, in order to get their chance to impress this guy. Oftentimes these actions are very subtle, and it should be a sign of the girls’ true interest in a guy when he notices this disagreement. Documented ca…

    The 11 Types of Pick Up Artists

    …evelopment of the seduction community has faciliated in the learning of game at younger ages. On one hand, these guys have a huge advantage over guys learning this later on in their lives. On the other, some say that youngsters learning cold approach techniques in a school environment actually messes up their natural social development by looking too deeply into the analytic part of natural social interactions. Youngsters generally go out with un…

    She’s Six Steps Away Review

    …based on 1 review) Price $97.00 Format eBook (PDF) Reviewed By Vince Lin About The Author Eric Disco is a guy who used to suffer from extreme social anxiety and was unable to talk to women he didn’t know. She’s Six Steps Away is his account of how he learned to deal with his anxiety and, impressively, how he taught many other guys to do the same. When it comes to approaching women, many guys feel somewhat anxious at the thought…

    Fucking New Guy (FNG)

    Quick Definition: A new guy to the community, who is a “newbie” status on the forums. Full Definition: An FNG is an AFC who is finally learning the “right” way to do seduction (in contrast to the “wrong” way presented by mainstream dating advice). FNGs basically need to read up on the community rules and prove themselves to be worthy in their commitment to the learning process. FNGs can sometimes be looked do…


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