mindset
The following are all the articles related to mindset from PUA Lingo, the Pick Up Artist's Encyclopedia. You can also browse our PUA Terminology List for a full list of PUA terms and acronyms.
The Approach Mindset
Hey, this is Bobby Rio from Make Small Talk Sexy… and today I wanted to talk to you about the…
Outcome Independence
Quick Definition: The mindset of not focusing on a specific result, or growing attached to any outcome. Full Definition: Outcome…
How to Approach Women
It’s happened to all of us before: we see a girl, we are attracted to them, and we want to…
Delusional Sense of Coolness
Quick Definition: A sense of self confidence about one’s “coolness” factor beyond that of reality. Full Definition: This term originally…
Dance Floor Monkey
Quick Definition: Better than a “dancing monkey”, the dance floor monkey is an average to above average dancer who uses…
Personal Amusement
Quick Definition: When an artist does something or takes on the mindset of doing things simply for his own amusement,…
Abundance Mentality
Quick Definition: The belief and life perspective that there is no shortage of hot girls to meet in any man’s…
Stealth Attraction + Master Pick Up Artist University
Have you ever wondered what it would be like to live in a training house with the world’s best dating…
7 Most Common Mistakes Intermediate PUAs STILL make!
Hey gang, Long time no see. I want to talk about a big topic that no one seems to be…
Secrets Of Attraction Bootcamp
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The Secret of Attraction Fashion
You’ve seen her before… The tall blonde/brunette/Asian/redhead (insert personal preference here)… With legs to die for and a laugh that…
Life Changing Moment (LCM)
Quick Definition: Also known as “life altering event”. A highly emotional and significant moment where the event causes a foundational…
Reference Points
Quick Definition: AKA “Reference Experiences”. The focal points of experience in various in-field situations. Full Definition: Reference points fuel the…
Escaping The ‘Friend Zone’
Guest post by David Black You’ve known this one girl for quite a while, you get on really well, you…
Recalcitrant Experience
Quick Definition: A “recalcitrant experience” is an experience that shatters the web of beliefs that a person has built up…
Blind Spot
Quick Definition: Anything that a PUA does that is harmful to his game that he is not consciously aware of….
Player
Quick Definition: A player in the game of seduction, generally a man who sleeps around with many women with no…
Next
Quick Definition: The concept of not lingering on the negative outcome of a particular situation, and moving on to the…
Frame
Quick Definition: A frame is a system of interpretation that an individual or group uses to understand a certain event/situation….
Game
Quick Definition: There is no short answer for this term. RSD defines game as “the external representation of your internal…
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